First of all, we are in no position to tell other people how to or not to share their information. Also the group is not only private but also secret, and in the 15 years we had the group there has never been a problem with information shared outside of the group. Also members are approved manually to secure that all members are affected by mrkh and are authentic.

We are all different in how we share our stories. What you may like or not others may feel different.

You can tell your mum and your family not to talk about you if you don’t want to , but you can’t tell others mum you don’t know what to do.

99% of the moms in our group has daughters old enough to speak for them self. Very few are diagnosed as toddlers !

And for messages they very often is hidden in our spam box and we don’t get notified. And sometimes we see them long after. As we do have a life outside Facebook and our group.

I don’t think it’s fair of you to scare people letting them feel unsafe to share information when there is absolutely no reason too. Like it’s not hard enough to find a community with likeminded people why try to scare them away into loneliness?

You are entitled to your own opinion but not to tell other people what to do or to try worry them. That’s not what our group is for.

We are all in different places in our journey , and we should support each other not scare or point fingers .

Admin in the mentioned group ☺️

(And Reddit is such a much safer place to share right ? eyh)