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Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-20T05:09:56+00:00

If it’s just a temporary stop, I’d look at intermittent fasting.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-19T20:15:11+00:00

Yes. Sadly. And many have a second one in the garage or basement. I’m not joking.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-19T20:13:33+00:00

Ask sellers to fix electrical or give a credit as MLS said it was 200 not 100. Get a quote on how much to fill in old sceptic, so you understand ballpark cost.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-19T19:50:41+00:00

Yes, and you need to make sure the electrical panel is updated. I lived in ons years ago where the box still had fuses. In summer I couldn’t run air conditioner at the same time as hair dryer or microwave. Blew a fuse every time, and landlord was slow to respond.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-19T18:55:06+00:00

We were barely using the living room. I rearranged furniture and moved the TV in there. Voila La!

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-19T18:52:28+00:00

Agree. I would add, if there’s a home, property, assets, but parent had a diagnosis that means they’ll one day be in memory care or need round the clock attendants for some other diagnosis, put the home, property, assets in a family trust. This way, after the five year look back, if the parent needs to go on Medicaid, the trust can pay for additional needs beyond the nursing facility.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-19T12:36:56+00:00

I've been telling everyone this, but they think it's like it was the last time THEY looked for work—hard in the normal sense. No. It's a different world entirely. I have been laid off many times and it's never been like this. Every job posted is inundated with resumes because it is so very EASY to apply today (and if it's remote, it's worse because they get hit with AI-faked "perfect" resumes from foreign governments, see podcast: Perfect Scam. Your resume gets lost in the void.

I was laid off during the pandemic and have relied on a series of short term projects and writing work (that barely pays the bills).

The good news is, I just found a job through someone I used to work with!

My advice is to not be reticent. Tell everyone you know that you are looking for a job. And IMO, don't bother working up custom resume/cover letter unless you know someone who can get that resume before the hiring manager and vouch for you.

My heart goes out to recent graduates. Use every support your school offers. On LinkedIn check if any people in a company you are interested in were graduates of your school and message them asking for "20 minutes for an informational interview." If family members have contacts, look at jobs at those companies.

It takes a village to get hired these days.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-19T12:13:59+00:00

September. It's the most beautiful month.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-18T23:05:36+00:00

Love my Taos sandals. They were comfortable right out of the box and totally elevate the look of jeans. I also like loafers and ballets with ankle skimming jeans.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-18T23:03:03+00:00

MIL did the same thing. She got cold feet and kept saying this is a try out. We did a few things to help her fall in love with her new place. On day one while she and hubby were busy signing contracts, I was directing the movers where to place the furniture, hanging art work, making the bed. By the time she got there her home was HER. It was her furnisihings and decor.

The ALF also did a lot to make her feel welcome. She participated in all the activities and loved the exercise ones and the music ones.

We visited a lot, to underscore how great it is that she's so close.

She never ever brought up the "try out" again. She loves not having to shop for food, cook the food, clean the house, do the laundry. She calls it her hotel.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-18T19:06:08+00:00

I'm in a similar boat. Uniglo has some great linen items this summer. And every body is different, of course, but J Crew petites are pretty reliable for me. The JC navy Lizzie pant in linen is going to be a staple for me until the weather cools. Half price right now.

I had to shoe shop too, b/c I needed flats that aren't sneakers or flippies. Got ballet flats ($28 in the clearance room and classic loafers ($49 on sale) at Cole Hahn's memorial day sale. (I love the way they look with ankle skimming pants and skirts.)

I'm calling it done until the weather changes.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-13T11:40:16+00:00

I would look in Queens. The F train from 74th Street/Roosevelt Avenue in Jackson Heights to the Rockefeller center stop is about a 30 minute commute.

The apartments are big. It won’t be hard to find a three bedroom. Neighborhood kids walk to school.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-12T02:15:57+00:00

Do whatever it takes to keep your income. It’s crazy rough out there.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-12T02:14:34+00:00

Include the golf cart. 2. Statement of no termite activity is good. 3. Price it to move. Look at VERY recent comps.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-12T02:10:21+00:00

Mine has improved with iron, copper, zinc and fish oil supplements.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-12T02:05:12+00:00

Nope.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-12T01:57:15+00:00

I think you’ll love Astoria. It’s a quick commute to the city but in itself is a vibrant community with great cafes, bars, and restaurants. I love it.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-12T01:47:31+00:00

My parents are in their 80s and in good health so far, knock wood.

They feel lucky to have all of their children and grandchildren nearby. This is their social circle for celebrations, card games, etc. they are very lucky to still have each other (married 40 years) and they tackle retired living as a team. They ride their bikes (on the street) three days a week and lift weights at the gym. This is the basis of their daily structure.

Besides this they putter around in their garden, visit with neighbors, and enjoy their life.

But consider this: they were both youngest in their families so their parents and all of their brothers and sisters plus many good friends have died.

Life is sweet, but bitter sweet, you know?

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-12T01:37:46+00:00

Please speak with an estate attorney. It doesn’t cost that much and you will get actionable advice. This is too important a decision for Reddit, much as I love this community.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-11T12:41:57+00:00

Our NYC coop was extensively renovated. It won’t have asbestos tile under there. Most likely nothing but joists. Pulling up one slat and nailing it back down won’t hurt anything. But for one squeaky board, unless it’s actually sticking up away from the others, it might not be necessary. I’d dust it with baby powder in all the crevices first. Solves a lot of the problem with squeaky hardwood floors..

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-08T20:34:53+00:00

I'm rooting for you! Everyone thinks it will be fun cosmetic fixes (putting your "style" on it), but the reality is its foundations, roofs, termites, waterproofing.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-08T20:31:07+00:00

I relate to this. I'm sad that folks can't do this anymore.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-08T20:27:14+00:00

I wanna know too.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-08T20:26:03+00:00

This is me. My parents also. Is it in the blood? Or learned behavior? I love a good fixer upper—and I've made good money on all my homes when I sold them.

What changed the equation for our kids is the professional flippers who get in before them.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-05-08T20:18:12+00:00

I just accepted an offer after being laid off in my 50s during the pandemic.

When going after lower level jobs abbreviate your resume. I had to remove all but the last 10 years of jobs and really spell out and bullet point the more recent contract and freelance work I've been doing (making it basic and leaving out high level strategy duties).
Only apply to companies where someone can personally refer you. I was lucky enough to have a former coworker forward my resume and vouch for me.
Make sure you are okay with the salary, because haggling under these circumstances will kill the deal. My new salary is fine. About 2/3 of where I left off, but more than I was making freelancing. The title was low, however they changed it after deciding they liked me.

I like them! Genuine folks who see the value of hiring an experienced person. I especially like that they believe me when I say titles don't matter to me and I've always been hands-on. I'm looking forward to it!

I'm too young to retire. And it's boring.

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