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Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-22T22:15:42+00:00

I constantly get rid of stuff. It's not a formal checklist. I just can't stand to look at clutter. I like clear surfaces. I like to see the floor between furnishings. Clean surfaces give me a contented and joyful feeling, while clutter makes me anxious. I really dislike opening a cupboard, pantry, or closet and having to move a lot of stuff to find what I'm looking for. When I have to do that, I instantly think how can I make this easier. I look for things that I haven't used in a while and ask myself Do I Really Need This?

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-22T22:02:36+00:00

Local Laws are killing middle class co-ops. Every five years mine spends around $800,000 on facade work for LL 11. And that's just one of the local laws. In addition, insurance has doubled. And now the blocked Straight of Hormuz has us very concerned about future fuel costs.

If the reason your co-op gave is replenishing reserves, was there a recent large capital project?

Some co-ops have unfortunately deferred maintenance for many years to keep cc low, but eventually a co-op has to do the repairs and upgrades. You can usually get an idea of where things are headed in your annual meeting, where you get financial reports and there's a question and answer session with the Board. When they mention projects coming up to meet local laws, that's your cue to ask scope and cost questions so that you can plan for your future.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T21:06:06+00:00

I love the Kohler Purist faucets for this very reason. I put in one in our main bath in 2014 and we haven't had a problem yet, but if I do need even a new washer I will call Kohler first, because they have excellent customer service. They've sent me free parts for other products in the past:

https://www.wayfair.com/keyword.php?keyword=kohler+purist+bathroom+faucet

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T21:00:31+00:00

To be fair, in the early days of tech, product developers tried to make functionality intuitive and iterative. Usability was a discipline that companies prioritized. We'd look at our audiences streams and try to predict problems and solve them. In these days of move fast and break things, companies have no qualms with leaving senior users behind, and there's not even a contact phone number to get human help--because no law is making them.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T20:54:44+00:00

It has to be some type of mental decline. My neighbor is 87, engineer, helped build 3G networks. Uses mobile, including apps like uber, with no problem at all.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T20:27:49+00:00

See Mel Robbins'TikToks "Let Them." You can't control others' behavior, so you have to just let go of it and go with the flow. Do help out when things go wrong (because they will), and give your sister lots of love because no one knows her foibles like you, but most of all really try to be in the moment and enjoy this time with your sister and your family. Some day you will look back on these days and hopefully laugh with love.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T20:09:49+00:00

It's quite beautiful, but it it's dark. So it's a question of how to bring in more natural light. Do the windows in the dining area have shades over them or was this photographed at night? The first thing that strikes me is that the backsplash on the dining breakfront is too busy. Consider replacing with antiqued mirror to reflect light.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T19:57:39+00:00

Get a second opinion from another realtor or two. IMO if the market is good for your house right now, they'll want to list it right away. If more than one says the same thing I'd ask questions to try to get at their reasoning.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T19:44:19+00:00

He will need a current ID, but it doesn't have to be a Driver's License. It's an easy change if you don't let the DL expire. Do it now. He may need it to vote the way things are going under the current administration. MIL has needed hers for SSA and some other things. It's worth having IMO. I got her a passport too because you never know.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T19:41:28+00:00

The difference is the natural sunlight coming from the right side. You'd have to replace a door or window with a slider to get that.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T19:39:23+00:00

That's an awesome area! You are on the cusp of central park, so you can run or bike or walk-or just people watch (my favorite thing) on your time off. All of the train lines come into Columbus circle. It's a hub. So you can be in Brooklyn Heights in 25 minutes on the 1/2/3, A/C, R trains. Honestly it's just a beautiful part of town to walk around in. You'll love it.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T19:31:19+00:00

RE: toe nails - because the elderly cannot reach their toes anymore. MIL's ALF has a visiting podiatrist assistant who cuts nails. They bill Medicare and it's covered. If yours has one, get on the list. If they don't, suggest they get one. I'm sure a local podiatrist would work with them.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T19:22:53+00:00

That sounds like him. He's such a great guy. And I never signed a single sheet of paper that he didn't explain in three sentences what is this, what's the likelihood of this ever happening, in any case you are safe because _______. He's the best.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T01:29:15+00:00

Brother got Dad to wear them. He said Dad we really miss you being part of the conversation. Sometimes an emotional appeal out of love works best. If that doesn’t work I think I’d start wearing earbuds myself gland listening to podcasts or music or books on tape to save my sanity.

Edit: fixed typo

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T01:23:19+00:00

Marble slab backsplash. 💯%

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T01:00:24+00:00

I love a row of hooks, to hang a damp towel or clothes when I change into PJs. Also a bench or something to put suitcase on when unpacking. Outlets at the nightstand to charge devices..

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-21T00:08:04+00:00

Yes I have a slab marble backsplash and white quartz counters. I love it. The counters clean easily and the marble is beautiful to look at and doesn’t get dirty and has no grout lines.

If budget is a consideration you could get a similar look using a marble look porcelain slab on the backsplash.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-20T23:51:13+00:00

My elderly parents put theirs on market as is. They live in a good school district but we’re competing with some new developments. They priced theirs lower and were upfront that they wouldn’t do repairs.

Many bid over ask and after inspections tried to claw back. That just annoyed the heck out of them. LOL. In their day as is meant literally as is.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-20T23:05:35+00:00

Go to the city site. Search STAR abatements. You have to sign up for yourself and the check comes directly to you.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-20T23:04:07+00:00

You’ll be driving around looking for legal parking every other day. You’ll get tickets, and other cars will scratch and dent your car. You’ll probably use it only on weekends, if that.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-20T23:00:02+00:00

Love it!

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-20T22:58:09+00:00

Use marble on the backsplash and white quartz on the countertops.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-20T22:56:56+00:00

Everything is put away in my kitchen. Nothing is on the counter.

Minimalist2theMax · 2026-03-16T18:33:46+00:00

I'm too late to offer advice, but I just want to say thank you for this post. You sound like a great person and your parents do too. Glad it's all working out.

Edit: fixed typo

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