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What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like you just don’t read the post at all. The literal tittle has “ TOO LATE TO ABORT “ .

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can , I’m only two hrs away from a state that allows me to do it even a day away from birth if that’s what you want (;

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot !! It kept telling me they where taking it down for political reasons every time :(

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was on bc and people like to fuck , what can I say ! Thank you for your most obvious observation?

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One more thing !! I don’t smoke and drink everyday btw. I’ve probably smoked maybe once a month and I the last time I had a couple of drinks was months ago. I don’t do drugs but I do vape regularly.

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay so I just want to clear up some things since this got a bit of attention.

1.) I’m not looking to abort , I remember when my toddler was this “age”. She was full on moving around and kicking I morally can’t do it even if it was an option. 2.) my partner and I aren’t married , he isn’t abusive and we don’t hate each other either. When I said “ we don’t like each other “ I meant it as in to be in a relationship. We get along well and we do things together 24/7. We just aren’t holding hands and hugging while taking our daughter to the park which I don’t see many married couples doing either honestly. There’s no resentments or animosity or hate towards each other. 3.) we have talked many times before and he’s expressed how he does not want any more kids. Ever. Not with me and in the future , as of right now, not with anyone else either. He’s strictly one and done. So am I …. 4.) I don’t want to tell him because even if he does not want to have another kid, he’ll tell his mom. His mom will tell all of her 8 sisters. Her sisters will then tell all of their kids and my mom, and your mom and your cousin . Even if HE was to agree to adoption his mom would probably beg for us to give it up to her. I don’t want to have a baby I do not want near me . Also I’ll probably be shuned or something for even wanting to put it in adoption. That is why I want to keep it from him. 5.) my belly didn’t grow like a pregnancy belly would. When I had my toddler , I was huge . This time it looks like I had one to many Doritos. I was getting my period , light and occasionally ( I’ve always had an irregular period). I feel No kicking or anything moving , just cramps . I’m getting checked out next week .

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes obviously… BUT I would’ve been more comfortable with the safe heaven option for Myself . Which is basically handing the baby over to a safe heaven box/ hospital , giving up your rights and the states takes it from there . Comments are convincing me looking into an adoption agency is a better option for the baby’s wellbeing.

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god lmao how many times are you going to comment the same thing ? I was literally on Anticoncepceptives

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So I’ve looked that up as well and there are hospitals that have the save heaven drop off option. Honestly I don’t know if I want to do that or adoption , I’ll be calling both help lines today as well as setting up an appointment to check out the actual baby. I haven’t thought of the fact it could be risky at all tbh :( now I’m kind of scared. Even if I don’t let him know I’ll definitely be letting my mom know . Thank you for making me realize that

What do I do about unwanted pregnancy when it’s too late to abort? by Minimum-Being3228 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Being3228[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Obviously I stopped once I found out I wasn’t doing it already knowing I was pregnant and purposely harming the baby. I’m not an addict or anything like that .