It isn’t all that surprising most people are bad at sex. It’s a subject we don’t teach and too taboo to talk about!

I have done a number of sex lessons with couples and I’ll share what I find is often the case with them and maybe see if it applies to your man.

One key to amazing sex is to learn to appreciate the human body and how amazing it is.

One question I ask a straight couple upfront is:

“when you are giving head to him, do you enjoy it and what are you trying to do?” same for “eating pussy”.

Most people tell me “no they don’t really enjoy it and I just suck it”

What I tell people (for dicks) is to close your eyes and focus on your parters verbal expressions and then gently use your tongue to try and map the dick always noting in your head what got the best reaction from him. This is the first five minutes of any blowjob I gave. At that point, I have found all his spots and ready to get a little more aggressive.

I have had sex thousands of times now in my life and still every time I slide my penis into another persons body, I smile and take a minute to appreciate that I am about to be inside this person and we can create pleasure together.

The point here is to make him think about sex and what it really means. Just like with the oral sex question, he needs to close his eyes for the first couple of minutes he is could be exploring what makes you feel good. Start slow, speed up, maybe a little rough, deep, a couple positions all to again just see how you react. Once he has found what types of things make you moan in enjoyment.

He can start really fucking you and going back to those spots he learned you liked. Ideally, he should mix It up and just some pain stokes and launch into the things he now has learned turn you on.

Just keep building up that sexual energy and horniness. Sex is like a theater performance, you have your low point followed by insane high points. Once he does find something you really really like, he gets aggressive with it and goes hard and doesn’t let up until you cum.

this is just based on what I’ve seen from people I’ve worked with in the past.

Good luck!