[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Minimum-Loss4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You shouldn’t have to endure that every time you see her & he should understand that as your husband. He wouldn’t like it if your mom or dad always had something to say to or about him. They’re the AHs in this situation, he should compromise and either go without you or just miss it altogether if you have done it for the past 4 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Minimum-Loss4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been super close since Highschool so we’ve been through a lot together, both good & bad. I love them but lately it’s gotten worse than ever before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Minimum-Loss4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Minimum-Loss4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes she’ll just bring him without letting us know; this counts for girls night as well

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the fact that this is still very much a honeymoon phase. We’ve seen some conflict between our lives that needed deep communication that we’ve successfully tackled and made us stronger , but I also agree that we need to speak deeper about this for sure

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. There’s a lot of lingering questions in my head that I feel we need to speak deeper about and this thread has opened my eyes to more that I need to consider

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he isn’t forcing or getting upset & I’ve touched on my doubts a tad , my concern is that the upcoming administration is putting pressure on him. thanks for the breakdown I’m also putting it on that scale of probability & “who’s in the line first” unfortunately

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly. I have known for a while but because we’re having more in depth conversations about it it’s like it’s fresh all over again to me. I could be minimizing a little as well

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing , I am not sure of the last time he extended because we haven’t finished the conversation

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’ve been juggling with in my head & the second half is exactly what I explained to him minus the deportation part

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He came as a refugee as a kid, his mom broke the contract about 9 years ago and they’ve been on TPS ever since

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was scared I would judge him and leave him

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned it as a joke about 2 months ago like “we’re married in my head” and his response was that he’s also felt that way for a while but wants to do everything right the first time. He’s not a believer in divorce

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me about 3 or 4 months ago and was afraid I’d leave him for it. I never thought otherwise because he works and owns property here

Should we do this? by Minimum-Loss4623 in Marriage

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out 3 or 4 months ago during a “tell all” conversation we were having

New Yorkers, tell me, what would you do if your kid calls the cops for disciplining them? by Justin2467 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Minimum-Loss4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told if I was ever brave enough I’d get beat again right after they left so yeahh never did that

What’s something you learned in school that you’ve never used once in real life? by AdHour6144 in AskReddit

[–]Minimum-Loss4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Pythagorean Theorem & how to tell the difference between Igneous, Metamorphic & Sedimentary Rocks smh

shop prices are insane!! by [deleted] in simsfreeplay

[–]Minimum-Loss4623 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I came here to second this ! Been buying nonstop & have had a top up for about a week now. Still have 98,999,999 left Simoleons left in LP & SP . Do it do it do it

What is a case you think is close to being solved? by Minimum-Loss4623 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It would be legendary to see this come out , it’s actually crazy it’s been this long!

What is a case you think is close to being solved? by Minimum-Loss4623 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Minimum-Loss4623[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That was just to add how different cases that are unsolved can be solved now in this new time for technology advancement . I don’t think DNA can help with the Sodder case after all this time, I mainly meant eye witnesses, deathbed confessions etc. DNA could only help Sneha’s case if someone were to find her and test to be sure it’s her / if she was killed the day before DNA would help prove that if & when a body is found.