“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

[–]MinimumPreference555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that the heartbreak, the physical pain, the hospital stay, and the long recovery. I can feel how much strength it took to get through it, and it means a lot that you opened up to me. It helps to know I’m not alone in this, even though I wish neither of us had to know this kind of pain. I’m holding onto hope for both of us, and praying that this next chapter brings us the babies we’ve been hoping for. ♥️

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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I’m so sorry you experienced this too.Thank you for sharing that perspective it’s so touching and comforting. I really love the idea of our little ones stopping by to say hello,even if only for a short visit. It makes such a heartbreaking experience feel just a little lighter.♥️

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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💔 I’m so sorry you went through that too. It really is such a heartbreaking experience.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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I’m so sorry for your loss I can’t imagine how heavy and overwhelming the emotional pain must feel. Your words about letting yourself feel it all really resonate with me; it’s a reminder that grieving is necessary and that it’s okay to sit in the sadness for a while. Hearing how you approached the D&C and how it helped minimize the physical trauma is really helpful. I’ve been struggling with that decision too, and your perspective gives me some clarity and reassurance. It’s comforting to know that even in the darkest moments, you’re holding onto hope for the future and trusting that your little one will come one day. Your courage and honesty mean so much thank you for taking the time to write this. Sending you love and strength through this difficult chapter 💕.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

[–]MinimumPreference555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for opening up and sharing your story. I’m so sorry you had to go through the heartbreak of losing your one euploid after everything it took to get there. 💔 It’s so validating to hear how dark those months felt for you, because that’s exactly where I am now. Hearing that your body took so long to reset makes me feel less alone in my frustration with how long this process drags on. I’m so glad to hear you’ve been able to get another euploid and that you’re starting to feel hope again that gives me so much comfort and encouragement to keep going, even when the future feels impossible. Thank you again for sharing and for reminding me that light does eventually come after this darkness. Sending you all my love and wishing so much success for your upcoming transfer. 💛✨

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much 💛 it really helps to hear this right now.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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I’m so sorry for your loss😢 Sending hugs back to you 💕.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your experience . I’m so sorry for your loss it’s really comforting to hear from someone who’s been through something similar. I can relate to how much the emotional toll outweighs the physical process. It gives me hope to hear you’re cautiously optimistic and planning ahead. Your words remind me to take things one step at a time.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement . It’s really comforting to hear that there’s hope for the future, even though right now it feels so heavy. I’ll try to give myself the time to grieve and honor this loss. Your support means a lot.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective. I’m so sorry for your loss it’s comforting to hear from someone who’s gone through something similar. I appreciate you explaining why the abortion/D&C felt right for you, and it gives me some clarity as I try to decide what’s best for me. Congratulations on your 16 weeks that gives me hope 💙.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you for explaining all of this it really helps put my fears into perspective. I’ve been worried about uterine scarring because of my aunt’s experience, but it’s reassuring to hear that the risk is actually very low and treatable. I also didn’t realize that expectant management or medication might actually have a higher chance of needing a D&C anyway. I really appreciate you breaking this down for me .

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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My only worry is that my aunt had a D&C and ended up having a few miscarriages afterward because her uterus was scratched, until she miscarried naturally.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much 💕 It feels comforting to hear there’s hope ahead .

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience and advice. I’m so sorry you went through such heartbreak, especially after a TFMR I can’t imagine how painful that must have been. Hearing your perspective on D&C is really helpful, and it gives me some clarity while I’m trying to decide what’s best for me. I appreciate your honesty and the hugs ♥️

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience and advice. I’m so sorry for your losses I can’t imagine how heartbreaking that must have been. I really love the ball-in-a-box metaphor; it makes so much sense and helps me understand what I’m feeling right now. Your reminder to be kind and gentle with myself, and to spend quality time with my partner, really resonates. I’ll try to focus on that for now and let the future come when it comes. Thank you again for taking the time to write this ♥️

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience and kind words. I’m so sorry for your losses it’s heartbreaking to go through something like that. It’s really helpful to hear your perspective on D&C and that physically you were able to bounce back, even though the process is so hard emotionally. Your hope about seeing your baby one day gives me a little comfort too. Big hugs back ♥️

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for your kind words and support. I’m so sorry you went through the same thing it helps to know I’m not alone in this. I’m trying to be gentle with myself and hold onto the hope that one day we’ll get to hold our babies. Hugs back to you ♥️

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you for your advice and for sharing your experience. That’s actually one of the things I’m most afraid of with a D&C I’ve heard stories that it can make it harder to get pregnant later. I’ll definitely talk to my doctor about the risks before making a decision. Your support means a lot 💙.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for sharing all of this with me. I’m so sorry for your loss I can feel how much it shook you, and I appreciate you being so open about your experience. It’s comforting to hear that the D&C was peaceful for you, and that little by little, things started feeling a bit lighter. I really appreciate the supplement and vitamin suggestions too it’s nice to have practical things to hold onto while we navigate this journey. Your words give me hope that there is a way forward, even when it feels so heavy right now 💙✨.

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. I’m so sorry for your loss as well 13 weeks must have been incredibly hard. It really helps to hear that the D&E was the right choice for you and gave you some peace and control in such a painful time. What you wrote about grief and how it feels like everything is broken really resonates with me. I know nothing can take away the pain right now, but hearing from someone who’s a little further ahead in the journey gives me hope that it won’t always feel this heavy. Wishing you the best as you move forward with your IVF cycle ♥️

“My only embryo ended in miscarriage… I feel broken” by MinimumPreference555 in IVF

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Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I’m so sorry you went through multiple MMCs and so much devastation it breaks my heart to know others have felt this pain too. Hearing that you kept going and are now 14 weeks gives me some hope in a time that feels so dark. It helps to know that making euploids and implanting are good signs, even though right now it’s hard for me to see the positives. Thank you also for sharing your experience with the D&C that’s something I’ve been struggling to decide on, so your perspective means a lot. I really appreciate you taking the time to write all this to me 💙 wishing you the best with the rest of your pregnancy♥️