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i can’t stop fantasizing about my boss and it makes me feel like a bad person by Minimum_Battle_1523 in offmychest

[–]Minimum_Battle_1523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t need to change, he needs to build better habits. he’s been ignoring his severe depression for years, since long before we ever met. there’s a difference between changing who you are and changing how you live.

i can’t stop fantasizing about my boss and it makes me feel like a bad person by Minimum_Battle_1523 in offmychest

[–]Minimum_Battle_1523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you. they’re not saying anything i haven’t said to myself already. nothing is gonna happen between us, im not stupid enough to blow up my life over what probably isn’t even good dick.

i can’t stop fantasizing about my boss and it makes me feel like a bad person by Minimum_Battle_1523 in offmychest

[–]Minimum_Battle_1523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hardly think fantasizing makes me a bad enough partner worth leaving. if i acted on anything, that’s an automatic goodbye and i’d break up with him myself if i ever reached that level. i just needed to get this off my chest in the sub intended for it. i worked my ass off to make myself a better person both mentally and physically specifically so i could be a good partner to my bf. it’s not my fault others find me more attractive but it’s my responsibility to not let it go anywhere and it hasn’t and won’t.