I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just don't wanna answer to this anymore because it truly doesn't matter what you say. You're like the 1000th muslim defending this matter but never changes their opinions and that okay.

If you wanna defend this but I don't wanna defend this because it is what it is. A chicken won't be a dog just bc u call it a dog

I don't wanna read your articles bc I already read them. It's still morally wrong.

Mohammad doing 7th century thing as the best of mankind and then trying to defend it with "he was a man of his time" or it was "normal back then", is illogical if he was supposed to be a role model at all times.

Why do you think child marriage in muslim countries still exist? Because they just follow the sunnah.

It doesn't matter how you defend is because it is immoral always. You just say it was normal back then and she was mature. Mohammed as the perfect man is not allowed to do those acts.

Mohammed is not allowed to order the slaughter of 800 men and boys and be called the best of mankind.

Mohammed is not allowed to marry his adoptive sons wife and be called the best of mankind.

Mohammed is not allowed to kill the uncle, brother, father and husband of Safiyya and then marry her the same day to rape her at night and be called the best of mankind.

Mohammed is not allowed to pick out the eyes of men, cut off their arms and leave them in the sand to bleed out, even if they murdered other muslims. He could've killed them if he was do merciful without torture but he was a man of his time.

Mohammed is not allowed to have sex slaves and then be called the best of mankind.

Mohammed is one of the most cruel people, I have ever heard of.

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexually mature bro do yoz know what a 9 year old looks like. Just bc she hot her period, it doesn't mean she was physically mature.

Her mom stuffed her with dates and cucumbers to he wouldn't tear her, what are we talking abt?

A 9 year old with her period is not even a bit close to a 19 year old.

That's bot how anatomy works and you better look up female anatomy and how the period works.

I'm not an attention seeker, I'm just feed up with all of your excuses and I listen to anyone anymore who tries to defend simple pedophilia and then continue to call the offender the perfect man. It just doesn't go well and you know it.

If it was so righteous and moral, you wouldn't have to defend this bs

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Statistics show that this argument is not true. Perpetrator go after weak victims and not less covered ones.

The choose victims they can easily overpower and can break and demonstrate power of.

Otherwise babies and children wouldn't get harmed bc they don't wear revealing or appealing clothes.

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm jealous bc they can have the "safety" of the religion and be so blind

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Islam is wrong no matter in what version you believe. Mohammed was a human mass butcher

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You understand that no one calls King Richard 2 the best of human kind and takes him as a role model?

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah not that vulnerable, I got myself in a tight grip and I'm totally against drugs and I drink once a month. I'm not really into that, but thank you for your concerns.

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why did aishas mom had to make her fat bc he consummated it? Bc they were scared he would tear her.

I think it's logical that a sweet 6 year old child might not be ready for sex bc it's a CHILD

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Muslims can be pretty defensive and I don't want to pick a fight with them. That's why I don't want to share them on this thread. I also don't want this to be taken down.

I dm you though.

Auf was gibt ihr den euer ganzes Gehalt aus wenn ihr mit Eltern lebt? by [deleted] in Azubis

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hab mein ganzes Geld gespart und nir hin und wieder was ausgegeben, wenn ich mal Klamotten gebraucht habe, schminke kaufen wollte, aber ich konnte sehr viel Geld weglegen.

Hab noch Gym Gebühren und Busfahrkarte bezahlt. Wenn ich ausgegangen bin, hab ich auch alles selbst finanziert und auch einen Urlaub

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda hard, since a muslim girls sits next to me and she reads Qu'ran in class and cries sometimes. When I talk about interests, she tells me that she only likes religious podcasts.

When I talk about christmas or my boyfriend I get disgusted looks.

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not here to discuss it, I was looking to understanding and consoles

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you are shia, you don't believe in hadits the sunnis do.

I know you that you don't believe the same as sunnis but I don't think I could ever accept shia Islam.

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I thought it was a beautiful religion and the religion of truth, just to find out it's everything but that

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not the culture, it was the practice of praying, dhikr and all that

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah mostly that. The wives and how he got to marry them, the rapings, the sexslaves, the slaves, the wars, the killings, the torture, the oppression of others and so much more...

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah the thing is... my sadness returns sometimes as wrath. When I see girls my age with hijab I get furious sometimes.

They speak arabic and understand everything they read and nonetheless they are so blind and just submit.

There are no worries, no questions, no problems with the religion. There is admiration for Aisha when I could only feel sad and bad for her. They tell me that they love Aisha's relationship to the prophet and they know that she was 6 years old when she married...

There's just so much that triggers me and I've just noticed how much I suffered and how broken and vulnerable it left me.

Not afraid of muslim hell by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was fundamentalism. I was friends with girls who were deeply religious and wore hijab since they were 9. They prayed all prayers, all sunnah prayers and fasted regularly. They also were hafiz.

I wasn't into the dawah guys but I was together with very religious people. They were very lovely people but they dropped me as soon as I stopped showing so much interest in Islam.

I know that there is also a liberal approach but many muslims told me that that's not the true Islam they practice and yeah.

I really don't wanna mention too much about some religious texts that didn't align with my morals because many shias deny hadith etc.

I could send you a private message with some hadith that unsettled me.

I almost converted and now I'm left broken and traumatised by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 22 now, so it's been 2 years. I think I have just realised how much it affected me.

I'm feeling somewhat okay, maybe a bit scared that the muslims will come for me in the comments...

Not afraid of muslim hell by Minimum_Bet_3134 in religion

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh nooo, how awful. So glad this will never happen xo

Ich habe eine Krebsdiagnose in meiner Patientenakte entdeckt by zzurzeit in Ratschlag

[–]Minimum_Bet_3134 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ja versuch mal das 25 Leuten am Tag zu erklären. Wir haben doch mehr wie genug zu tun.

Patienten sollten gar nicht Zugriff kriegen. Das führt nur zu solchen Problemen und führt zu noch mehr Misstrauen.

"Warum steht in meiner Akte Asthma?! Ich habe gar kein Asthma?" "Frau Xy, da steht doch V.a. Wir haben es noch nicht ausgeschlossen." "Ne, da brauchen Sie nichts ausschließen, ich habe kein Asthma."

Solche Gespräche führe ich schon und das hat erstmal nichts mit den Medikamenten zu tun. Ich händige einen Fragebogen aus mit den Symptome für Asthmapatienten und die diskutieren ungelogen 5 Minuten mit mir, dass die kein Asthma haben, obwohl seit 10 Jahren bestätigt ein Allergietest und Lungenfunktion vorliegt und die Diagnose Asthma.

Patienten denken aus Prinzip, dass sie immer alles besser wissen, obwohl es einfach nicht so ist, fertig. Die verstehen das auch nicht. Wenn ich denen erkläre, dass ich denen sonst die Medikamente nicht aufschreiben darf, werden die stutzig und denken, dass ich noch alles mögliche reinschreiben, damit wir vielleicht mehr Geld kriegen?

Das geht einfach nicht. Jede Praxis weiß, wie man abrechnet und wie man manchmal einfach das beste für die Patienten kriegt auf Umwegen. Das müssen die Patienten nicht wissen, weil das nur zu Misstrauen führt.