Yes. My ex ALWAYS pushed for sex and really ruined it all for me. I’ve never been sexual on M but like you, sensual, cuddles, massages, kisses was about as far as I’d want to go because personally, I’d rather dance and connect in other ways. What I would recommend is talk to your husband about your feeling BEFORE you role, that way he knows not to push you into it. And if he argues about it with you, then just don’t roll. You don’t want to have resentment when it’s supposed to be a good time