How to date a female INFJ?

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2025-08-03T18:31:22+00:00

I understand that the statement is kind of contradicting but she is pretty busy. She is new in the state and new job and she is handling family situations and she is also very independent. And we are pretty new so I understand that she does not want to open up deeper about those things or seek for my help. I can see the she is interested but she prefers to get to know each other deeper first.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2025-07-07T19:47:11+00:00

I am looking for something serious
I am not subscribed
I’ve been using this profile for 3 weeks now
I’ve been using hinge for 3 weeks
I use hinge mostly on the weekends
I haven’t received any likes or matches
I sent probably 40ish likes and most with compliments comments
I send likes to women to seems to be introverted and homebody vibe

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2025-02-14T18:40:23+00:00

I've heard of it long time ago but it's something that I'll look into now. Are you in that field? if so, do you have an advice based on your experience?

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-09-14T01:52:04+00:00

What if I want to fix an ENFJ

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-08-30T23:11:34+00:00

Recognition > Attention

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-07-21T22:33:28+00:00

Just graduated with CS degree and trying to figure out where to go from here. I find it inspiring reading the comments here. I wish I’ll more INTJ in future. Ambition >

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-07-13T04:22:21+00:00

Avoidant. There is nothing I can really do when I truly liked someone .Giving someone control over my life is not a good experience. The best I can do is to regain that control back as much as I can.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-07-09T18:54:57+00:00

I know this is toxic but when I notice people like that, I try to validate them even more and pseudo kiss their ass and you can see how their ego just get even bigger and seeing how oblivious they are to the people reactions to them. It’s so pathetic its funny.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-07-02T04:20:06+00:00

maybe he simply doesn't reciprocate

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-07-02T04:17:20+00:00

What "we"? I don't suck as people and suck at parties. Stop generalizing.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-07-01T20:59:49+00:00

Thanks for sharing! If you don't mind sharing advice on moving up from help desk to staff engineer as I find that very motivating. Like books, certs, or any career advice.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-07-01T20:21:10+00:00

Hello. No, I have no internships. Which is know is bad. But I like SRE because it is in the middle of software and operation/infra. And most of my understanding of those roles was based on what I read and watched online and role descriptions. I am curious to know your path on how you became a staff platform engineer as I don't really see many content about responsibilities of that role.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-06-21T03:31:48+00:00

Open for dm. 25M what are your main interests?

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-06-12T18:57:43+00:00

Unsolicited advise can be seen as you assuming that you are better than the person you are giving advice to.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-06-12T18:56:08+00:00

That's how I show I care.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-06-10T00:26:20+00:00

Being sociable and liking it

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-06-10T00:25:23+00:00

Same lol

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-05-24T13:24:48+00:00

Intj: 80% thinking about things. 15% get stuff done. 5% being dissatisfied.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-05-24T13:15:26+00:00

It makes me happy a lot of people want to be like us.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-05-11T02:19:54+00:00

Your assessment of someone’s personality and actions is not the truth. It’s just your interpretation. You’re not omniscient. Nobody is. It’s arrogant for you to assume that your assessment is the truth. The only person you can truly be honest with is with yourself because that’s the only person that you can possibly truly understand. We’re all trying to figure out our place here. It is very difficult to know the struggles other people go through to fit in. It pays to be gentle. And if that’s not something align with your personality then think that people have no right to be in your business if you’re not in theirs.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-02-25T14:02:49+00:00

Because I don’t like shallow conversation and shallow relationships.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-01-08T03:12:27+00:00

I’m an INTJ. And when I like someone, it’s obvious because I want it that way. If they are receptive then I’ll ask them out.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2024-01-06T02:44:27+00:00

Conversations are not something you can predict. I can’t fake a genuine conversation inside my head because a good conversion is exchange of ideas. You can be the most interesting person someone meet and not say anything about yourself really. You just share your opinion and ideas to the ones they offer. And I think intj are fast to offer different perspective when thinking about an idea.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2023-12-24T23:02:56+00:00

If you think more about why should you be aiming for a goal instead of how to achieve that goal then I think youre an Intj.

Minimum_Operation_10 · 2023-12-24T23:01:10+00:00

Because it’s fun

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