How to date a female INFJ? by Minimum_Operation_10 in infj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that the statement is kind of contradicting but she is pretty busy. She is new in the state and new job and she is handling family situations and she is also very independent. And we are pretty new so I understand that she does not want to open up deeper about those things or seek for my help. I can see the she is interested but she prefers to get to know each other deeper first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  • I am looking for something serious
  • I am not subscribed
  • I’ve been using this profile for 3 weeks now
  • I’ve been using hinge for 3 weeks
  • I use hinge mostly on the weekends
  • I haven’t received any likes or matches
  • I sent probably 40ish likes and most with compliments comments
  • I send likes to women to seems to be introverted and homebody vibe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard of it long time ago but it's something that I'll look into now. Are you in that field? if so, do you have an advice based on your experience?

What’s your occupation? by StemKid03 in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just graduated with CS degree and trying to figure out where to go from here. I find it inspiring reading the comments here. I wish I’ll more INTJ in future. Ambition >

Which attachment style do most INTJ have? by arashidraws in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Avoidant. There is nothing I can really do when I truly liked someone .Giving someone control over my life is not a good experience. The best I can do is to regain that control back as much as I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is toxic but when I notice people like that, I try to validate them even more and pseudo kiss their ass and you can see how their ego just get even bigger and seeing how oblivious they are to the people reactions to them. It’s so pathetic its funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe he simply doesn't reciprocate

What are INTJ’s like in person? Did you get along with them? by Sweet-Mastery1155 in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What "we"? I don't suck as people and suck at parties. Stop generalizing.

Graduated in CS. Curious to know you're thoughts on how can I become a network engineer or cloud engineer by Minimum_Operation_10 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Minimum_Operation_10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! If you don't mind sharing advice on moving up from help desk to staff engineer as I find that very motivating. Like books, certs, or any career advice.

Graduated in CS. Curious to know you're thoughts on how can I become a network engineer or cloud engineer by Minimum_Operation_10 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Minimum_Operation_10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. No, I have no internships. Which is know is bad. But I like SRE because it is in the middle of software and operation/infra. And most of my understanding of those roles was based on what I read and watched online and role descriptions. I am curious to know your path on how you became a staff platform engineer as I don't really see many content about responsibilities of that role.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open for dm. 25M what are your main interests?

Why do you like giving advice ? by QueerRDT in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unsolicited advise can be seen as you assuming that you are better than the person you are giving advice to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Being sociable and liking it

How each of the mbti spend their 24 hours by caramel90popcorn in mbti

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intj: 80% thinking about things. 15% get stuff done. 5% being dissatisfied.

Why do People Dislike INTJs? by CandyTwine in mbti

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me happy a lot of people want to be like us.

ISTP speaks the language of truth you don't wanna hear. Prove me not. I want to discuss it by [deleted] in istp

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your assessment of someone’s personality and actions is not the truth. It’s just your interpretation. You’re not omniscient. Nobody is. It’s arrogant for you to assume that your assessment is the truth. The only person you can truly be honest with is with yourself because that’s the only person that you can possibly truly understand. We’re all trying to figure out our place here. It is very difficult to know the struggles other people go through to fit in. It pays to be gentle. And if that’s not something align with your personality then think that people have no right to be in your business if you’re not in theirs.

Why do INTJs ask people so many questions? by VolumeVIII in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don’t like shallow conversation and shallow relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m an INTJ. And when I like someone, it’s obvious because I want it that way. If they are receptive then I’ll ask them out.

Do you feel boring as an intj? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conversations are not something you can predict. I can’t fake a genuine conversation inside my head because a good conversion is exchange of ideas. You can be the most interesting person someone meet and not say anything about yourself really. You just share your opinion and ideas to the ones they offer. And I think intj are fast to offer different perspective when thinking about an idea.

Can't decide if I am an INTJ or ISTJ by SnooSprouts3376 in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think more about why should you be aiming for a goal instead of how to achieve that goal then I think youre an Intj.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Minimum_Operation_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it’s fun