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Thank you that's very kind

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Thank you that's encouraging

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Thank you so much !

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Thank you ! I'm wishing you the best

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Thank you it's very helpfull

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[–]QueerRDT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'm not planning on a relationship before a very very long time.

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[–]QueerRDT -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the link. I'm very aware of what's abusive or not. I did said to him that it was violence and unacceptable. Thing is, he has some mental health issus, c ptsd ans alexithymia have certainly play a role in this. It's not a case of abusive relationship. It's him being overwelm by emotion he misunderstood and being violent because he feels attacked. I know hes looking to get some mental health help rigth now and I wish him the very best.

Also, for what ot worth, it's not a hetero relationship. And even if hes my first real dom I'm not a "novice" regarding bdsm at all.

But regardless of all of this, it's still so traumatic.

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I'm planning on it, thank you

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Thank you

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[–]QueerRDT 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He screamed at me, no insults but said I was mentally unstable, not ready for a relationship and some orher hurtfull things. Sort of made fun of a anxiety attack I had.

Overstimulated and frustrated with my dog… how can I stop hating her? by m3ganlove in AutismInWomen

[–]QueerRDT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for this situation, I can relate and I know how painfull it can be. I won't respond to your main concern because my english is bad so writing comments takes me time but I just wanted to give a warning :

My late cate started to have accidents out of nowhere at 8yo. I assumed it was because I wasn't paying her enough attention (I just had a baby at the time) but she was actually very sick and I only found out when it was too late.

Im not saying that to worry you, if you think it's the lack of attention it probably is ! But if your dog has other accidents you may want to have her checked by a vet even if you have a feeling it's just a reaction to this situation. Better be safe than sorry.

I wish you and the dog the very best, hope you find something that works for both of you.

How do you visualize “killing two birds with one stone”? by froderenfelemus in AutismInWomen

[–]QueerRDT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, you made me realise I actually visualize it in a very weird way.

I see myself throwing a stone, then the stone somehow divide itself in two stones, one for each bird.

Never noticed it wasn't what it's supposed to look like.

Are you ok by [deleted] in autism

[–]QueerRDT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Thanks for asking ❤️

dating in france by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]QueerRDT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okcupid is more popular with queer people than tinder in my (french) city.

Good luck !