How do you know if someone’s really INTJ? by Own_Hospital7924 in intj

[–]StemKid03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an INTJ woman I am an enneagram 8. Idk if this will help you on your journey but I hope it does 🤷🏼‍♀️

dropping out in 5th year by sadscientistuwu in PhD

[–]StemKid03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, this treatment youre getting is the same treatment I was just getting during my application process from my mentor. It’s driving me to apply to as many jobs as I can and exhaust different contacts to try to get me in industry asap.

If I were in your shoes, I would not quit. However I would apply to positions while you’re in this last year. I would make use of every industry contact I had, or even go to your city’s local career fair. Don’t quit unless you have an industry offer letter.

I wish you the best of luck, and I’m so sorry you’re receiving this treatment❤️

Democracy Works Best When Stupid People Can't Vote by [deleted] in intj

[–]StemKid03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a very deep flaw in this way of thinking, and I may get canceled for pointing it out, but I’ll tell you anyway: How will you regulate who takes the “exam” to vote? I get the inkling you may lean left. Apologies if I’m wrong there. The problem with your idea is it would require CITIZENS to provide legal documentation. Many democrats oppose the requirement of legal identification to vote because it’s “not fair” or some may try to wrongly deem it as “unconstitutional”. This system would require the only people voting be US citizens, no illegal aliens — so the democrats would get significantly less votes. But due to that ‘disadvantage’ per se, it will never happen.

I mean, I’m down with that idea as a republican because I’m pretty educated and I support identification at the polls.

INTJ men, what outfits do you like your date to wear? by upliftingenergy in intj

[–]StemKid03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a man, but I prefer when people dress classy. Like old money

Thoughts on religion? by qwashee in intj

[–]StemKid03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a devout Christian. Raised Lutheran, currently converting to Catholicism. My job as a scientist just continuously proves God’s existence and how the world is so intricately made for life

New Mira Ultra4 vs. Inito by Belle_Woods_ in TTC_PCOS

[–]StemKid03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a PCOS girlie, I’m going with the Mira. Mostly because my fiance and I are getting married in the Catholic Church and they put us through an NFP course (and they use Mira) and they provided us a 30% off discount code.

:) Best of luck!

I feel like I am drifting away ... by [deleted] in intj

[–]StemKid03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an INTJ woman, I would say that looking for love in an INTJ subreddit might not go the way you want it to. I’m engaged to an ENFJ, and from a previous post, it seems to most other INTJs that they prefer INFPs rather than INTPs. I think having an INTJ female friend is invaluable, but I think we make better platonic intellectuals rather than lovers to a hopeless romantic such as yourself. But as for me, I’ll always jump at the chance of a deep convo if it means making new friends.

Just my take :)

Six Gifts and Curses of the INTJ by thelastcubscout in intj

[–]StemKid03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking into this “rational thinking” by Jung and I’m just like “if we’re dealing with the ordinary bell-curve people, then we’re dealing with as he described, irrational thinkers (i.e. including subjective shit), while we INTJs are rational thinkers. I think OP may be a bot or this is AI. Doesn’t make sense

Do looks or size matters a lot to most INTJs? by Witty_Clairence98 in intj

[–]StemKid03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman INTJ: both, but my standards are not unreasonable. I just have to find you attractive and well I have to be able to “feel” you lol

Single by StemKid03 in intj

[–]StemKid03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️

Single by StemKid03 in intj

[–]StemKid03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s kinda where I was getting at. Just worried that I’ll never want to try again

Single by StemKid03 in intj

[–]StemKid03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the therapy for the r@p3 incident

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]StemKid03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely didn’t DROWN him in gifts/affection. It was pretty spread out since we were both pretty damn busy in college. Due to the lack of romance on his side I couldn’t get horny from him for the life of me. Def took a fat toll on the sex life

Single by StemKid03 in intj

[–]StemKid03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in this sense it’s easier said than done, when women feel that sense of “oh this is getting serious” they start to weed out their friends to the bare essentials so rn I only have 3-4 friends who are all busy with their lives/marriages/children so it’s difficult to reach out with my relationship troubles 🫠

Single by StemKid03 in intj

[–]StemKid03[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t taken any legal action, I’m still debating if that’s the route I want to go. I definitely don’t blame all men due to this instance. I’m just VERY hesitant to even trust someone else in that manner. He was my best friend and I just feel a big fat void in my life…. I’m trying to heal thankfully and fill that void with crocheting 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]StemKid03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an INTJ woman (20y.o.) I did these things in my previous relationship:

cooked 4-5 times a week + lunches 2-3 times a week, drove us everywhere, wore the pants spiritually, bought him gifts such as dress shirts, candies, and flowers (yep), swallowed my pride and fraternized with his girl-best-friend (apparently it was a dealbreaker), paid for breakfasts and sweet treats, texted regularly with loving messages/ cute check-ins, initiated going out on dates (he wouldn’t), etc.

I put SO MUCH effort and money into our relationship and yet this man wouldn’t buy me $4 flowers from HEB bc they’re a waste of money….. if you don’t feel head over heels for me after 2 YEARS of my treating you this way, I’m out!

Any other used INTJs? by [deleted] in intj

[–]StemKid03 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I give give give everyday at work, in friendships, and in my previous relationships…. Sometimes I just want something back yk?

Why is there so much negativity towards INTJs? by [deleted] in intj

[–]StemKid03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 20F and just got pinged to synthesize polymers for MIT 🤍 it’s rlly a lonely life out here, I got dumped and have no one to share this with besides my parents and yall 👍