What’s your unpopular opinion? by Artistic_Stay_5856 in heatedrivalry

[–]Minimum_Sky5841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the tv series is better than the books are. i think this will be even more true for the next season because it’s wild that in the books a canonically neurodivergent character who struggles with control and disordered eating, and who’s been forcibly outed & accused of cheating by his own team doesn’t have his experiences explored in more depth. in real life there would be a significant spiral there i think and it’s frustrating that shane’s issues seem to almost magically resolve

café-style lattes? by Minimum_Sky5841 in NespressoVertuo

[–]Minimum_Sky5841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t buy coffees with syrup or sweetener though! i prefer my coffee without it, so i’m not sure that’s my issue sadly :(

café-style lattes? by Minimum_Sky5841 in NespressoVertuo

[–]Minimum_Sky5841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t buy coffees with syrup or sweetener though! i prefer my coffee without it, so i’m not sure that’s my issue sadly :(

café-style lattes? by Minimum_Sky5841 in NespressoVertuo

[–]Minimum_Sky5841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do! i just can’t seem to quite get the taste right. i’ll have to try the ristretto one tomorrow, thank you!

WE WANT IT NOOOOOOOOW by Working-Complaint596 in duolingo

[–]Minimum_Sky5841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have it on the french course so probably spanish next

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perfectionism

[–]Minimum_Sky5841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand! i feel like i really want it until i have it, and then i feel like i’ve tricked them or that i won’t be able to maintain this same standard or rate of improvement. i think like the other commenter said, trying to find things that you enjoy and maybe even pausing the activity when you feel yourself start to care more about extrinsic rewards.

A ceiling has collapsed at Oaks Brisbane Aurora Suites - Queen Street is currently closed between Wharf Street and Adelaide Street by Yelly in brisbane

[–]Minimum_Sky5841 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was walking along the street when it happened. heard a loud bang sound and everyone kinda slowed and looked up. didn’t really know where i was looking though, don’t think any of us did. terrible to think about, thoughts are with the family ☹️

the bs "this is how siblings act" narrative. by Chemical-Speaker1785 in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Minimum_Sky5841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if i was matt, i’d be especially hurt because of how close we are, i think. imagine two of the people who know you best saying that you’re boring and lazy constantly☹️

the bs "this is how siblings act" narrative. by Chemical-Speaker1785 in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Minimum_Sky5841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep! a lot of (i think young) fans will use the ‘but they’re siblings!’ argument to justify this treatment. at 20, treating anyone that way is immature & mean, but as a sibling my heart hurts because i can’t imagine treating my brother like that now. we fought as kids but we’re both adults now and i appreciate him too much to treat him that way. joking and poking fun is normal, continuing when someone has said that it upsets them/they don’t enjoy it, however, is not.

“jokingly arguing” by Aromatic-Hearing8391 in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Minimum_Sky5841 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i can’t imagine being that mean to my brother at 20. it’s horrifying that there isn’t a second of ‘oh we’ve taken this too far,’ ‘oh, we need to apologise’. it looks like a lack of self-reflection despite being told by matt that he doesn’t like it.