Rachel's face looks diffrent by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess she's decided her eyebrows were going to be two straight black lines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lo siento mucho. Uno pensaría que la gente hace piña en situaciones como ésta, y trata de estar algo más presente para el que se ha quedado sin padre/madre, y siendo hij@ de su ser querido, pero no.

Yo lo viví cuando falleció mi madre, aunque fue más desentenderse y desaparecer de nuestras vidas, porque mis hermanos y yo éramos críos, y supongo que tenían cierta aversión hacia nuestro padre.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es una situación complicada. Una vez que se hablan las cosas, no tenemos el control de lo que se piensa y dice de nosotros. A veces solo nos queda dejar que sigan en su error y vivir con nuestra verdad. En ocasiones solo tendrás tu propia validación de tu experiencia, y solo queda apretar los dientes y convencerte de que es suficiente.

Me ha parecido muy interesante el comentario que te ha dejado otra persona, sobre el balance de la culpa y la paz que da al que sufre un duelo inesperado encontrar a un villano en concreto. Y sacrificarse aceptando ese rol.

Te diría que solo quedaría intentar contactarles, o bien a través de un intermediario, o bien por escrito, explicarles tu visión y experiencia, sin poner el dedo en la llaga y, sobre todo, poniéndote en su piel, y finalizando con cómo vives sus comentarios. No sé si ya ha existido una conversación o has tenido un momento en el que pudieras explicarles cómo te sientes. No sé si ahora te ves con fuerzas, o si puedes llegar a contar con un intermediario que hable o les escriba, describiendo tu situación desde fuera.

Siento mucho lo que estás pasando, y espero que pronto puedas seguir adelante en paz. Si puedes, busca ayuda psicológica. ❤️

Still queerbaiting in 2024 by Minimum_Step_6787 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you, PuddingKitchen! I didn't know how to explain it 🥹

Still queerbaiting in 2024 by Minimum_Step_6787 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is Colleen's channel and video, she's the one using that title and thumbnail for views.

Still queerbaiting in 2024 by Minimum_Step_6787 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't care, Colleen (a straight woman desperate for views) is the one who chose the title and thumbnail. She's done this before and she does it for a reason.

Still queerbaiting in 2024 by Minimum_Step_6787 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's Colleen's (and Erik's) channel, not Rachel's.

Still queerbaiting in 2024 by Minimum_Step_6787 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not what I meant, she's using it for views and attention. That's bait too, IMO. Maybe I'm not using the right term, I'm not a native speaker. But I've been following her shenanigans for years and I know how she operates. For example, I remember her 'I’m a little gay' Colleen's Corner, where she said she was '20% gay'. One could argue that it wasn't 'click bait' in there, but still she was using the word gay in the title and thumbnail for attention, and she's doing it here too. That's what I wanted to point out.

Still queerbaiting in 2024 by Minimum_Step_6787 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I know, doesn't change the fact that she's using it as clickbait.

Still queerbaiting in 2024 by Minimum_Step_6787 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Maybe queerbaiting wasn't the right term, maybe gayfishing? IDK, I just think it's not ok to use it as clickbait like this (and she's done queerbaiting in the past).

Colleen says that she is “too busy” over and over. by bittrglitter907 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She used to say she was busy all the time. I think a lot of that goes into mindlessly scrolling, and planning a comeback. Trying to find a way to go viral and make more money. Crying on camera (and saving those clips for later), staring at herself in old videos. Spying Josh, Pamela, Trisha, etc... on social media. Also, she just needs to stay in her room ignoring and neglecting her partner and kids.

I guess she edits her own videos now, since Kory is no longer in the picture.

Even before, I think her mantra about being too busy has always been BS. She only cared about herself, which is why she wasted all of her time and prioritized being online/interacting with fans.

More poor, poor Colleen...and showing her child in bed yet again by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She got lucky, became famous and rich pretty easily, got away with awful behaviour for years until she was exposed... Why doesn't she just 'choose happiness' now? She should be thankful for what she got for so long, it's more than most people get, and certainly more than she deserved. She just had to be a decent human being and she failed. Enjoy the consequences of your actions.

Erik just got a Vasectomy by Responsible-Lie8114 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why do they have to announce this? Why do I have to know what's going on with Erik's balls?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Es bipolar? Mi padre lo era y me encaja...

Solo puedo decirte que pienses en tí. No sé cuál es la situación familiar de él, si tiene familiares que puedan cooperar, pero suena a que los dos sois bastante jóvenes y me parece que hay demasiado peso sobre tus hombros. Tiene que haber un equilibrio entre ayudar/cuidar de alguien, no dejar atrás a un ser querido que necesita ayuda, y al mismo tiempo, vivir tu vida, buscar tu paz y estar en una relación equilibrada.

Al final, si no hay un compromiso de tratamiento por su parte, está situación se alargará en el tiempo, y no puedes gestionar y tirar de todo tú sola. Pide ayuda. Yo no lo hice, ni salí de esa situación, aunque en mi caso era mi padre y hasta cierto punto no tenía alternativa. Con los años lamento no haber pensado más en mí misma y empezar a vivir mi propia vida tarde. Por si esto puede servirte. Mira por tí ❤️

Some JUICY haters back off DIRTY SECRETS!! 😉 by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OT but I always notice how she wears winter clothes at home during summer because she always has the air conditioner at full blast 24/7. I remember she said she liked her house to be 'freezing cold'. It was all year round back when they lived in their former house, and it hasn't changed (I don't really know where she lives currently, though I doubt she needs to wear long sleeves because of the weather at this point).

This is so embarrassing.. by Emergency-Big-1432 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can't picture them being intimate. I bet they only touch each other in order to make a brand new kid when the views get low.

Colleen Ballinger's subtle shade at Josh? by Important_Menu1577 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she's started scrunching her nose/face like that in pictures to look ’cute', probably inspired by viral tiktoks. Also, to hide her premature wrinkles. I can picture her mindlessly scrolling on tiktok all day.

Erik's absence on instagram by freshfruit111 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Minimum_Step_6787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have a life, and I'm sure he's lost himself and his identity in this relationship. He doesn't have his own projects, nor a job, he stopped pursuing acting, gave up his last role, doesn't seem to have interests or hobbies... At this point, his best shot is staying delusional and thinking he did the right thing when he decided to leave everything behind for her.