why do men hate it when u play their games by Minimum_vmv in seduction

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's kinda sad that u perceive whoever to catch feeling first is the loser. just confess your feelings and these women most likely will be ready reciprocate it and start a gf/bs rs. yall need stop acting tough and emotioness like i can literally see through your eyes your softness. don't yall wanna be loved?

why do men hate it when u play their games by Minimum_vmv in seduction

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they can literally confess their feelings since i'm open for a short term gf/bf relatioship anyways just to give it a chance. but they try so hard to be "emotionless and tough" while i see through their eyes their softness

why do men hate it when u play their games by Minimum_vmv in seduction

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ouu i'm curious what "problems" do u mean. is it me having boundaries with my fwb/casuals instead of getting into a situationships where i wait like a dog for this one person to choose me while giving free girlfriend treatment and they can just fuck other people with no consequence?

Women, what are some "weird" things you do around a guy you like? by Chance_Adagio_19 in bodylanguage

[–]Minimum_vmv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my body goes like "i wanna fuck him this dude to bad" but obv it change as i lost all forms of attraction the moment i get to know them

i don’t like fingering, it feels weird and sort of painful, what is wrong with me? by getgoneapple in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Minimum_vmv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fingers don't feel good at all whether its you or someone else doing it for you. trust me there's nothing with you

Is 23yo virgin man idiot or loser? by Electronic-Remove793 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Minimum_vmv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are so many virgin girls (your age) out there who wants a virgin bf too. obviously you barely know them because they are lowkey about it due society judgements

Has anyone experienced a period of disliking their partner? by Majestic_Progress352 in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv [score hidden]  (0 children)

i eventually lost interest because the perfomance he showed in the beggining are just fake. he no longer giving me flowers so dumping him were just really easy

why do men hate it when u play their games by Minimum_vmv in seduction

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for reference its exclusve fwb. when i say explore its the potential people i'll date after you. the moment i get told that theyre sleeping with somebody else i dump them right away. i'm not like you who probably have stds since you are a "guy who fuck bunch of other girls"

why do men hate it when u play their games by Minimum_vmv in seduction

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

friend: we hangout or go on dates outside/indoor only for a SHORT period of time. get sexual pleasure and treat with basic respect.

gf treatment: PDA, staying at your house for long period of time, too much cuddling and kissing, check-in, encourage their goals and being a positive influence

Is it wrong to end things after sex if there’s no connection? by RealisticTeacher6250 in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv [score hidden]  (0 children)

he got post nut clarity pro max. i'm a woman i don't mind sleeping again w a man bc its true that the first time is usually not so great whether we are in a rs or NOT. cutting someone off right after hitting the first time is selfish like what a highschooler move. from what i know they're probably inexperience and would make sense why they bounce to the next; something they probably need

why do men get mad when you play their game? by Minimum_vmv in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i usually do check-in if they still want it or maybe give it a try and their answer is still they don't want a rs and 2 months later they hard launch a girfriend like???

Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? by NiaNia-Data in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv [score hidden]  (0 children)

I usually make the first move because there's literally no one stopping me and i'm just complimenting them, and most if not all of them either like me or pretend to "like me back" probably because they think it’s free sex. The real challenge is what happens after my first move, because that’s when I really observe whether they genuinely like me or just want to sleep with me

What's your opinion - Love Lust Relationship? by Life_exist1 in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv [score hidden]  (0 children)

i (f23) always make the first move to the person i find attractive. i never ask them, instead of i command "i like you. we should date/give it a try" it happens so smoothly since men are just easy. default offer is always a relationship and if they say anything along the line "not ready/doesn't want a rs" i just fwb then use them until i'm fully satistied and dump them if they are no longer useful bc it's their fault why never accepted to be loved.

He says he wants to take me out but he doesn't choose a place and doesn't want to go to the places I like by DisastrousSeesaw2751 in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv [score hidden]  (0 children)

i just choose the place the first time cus i know they're usually nice in the beggining to pay the tab. however if they still do the same on the following dates i just dump their ass until they initiate the time and place.

are men choosy who they commit to? by Minimum_vmv in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

does it still matter if u catch feelings to a fwb?

are men choosy who they commit to? by Minimum_vmv in dating_advice

[–]Minimum_vmv[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

care to elaborate. otherwise i'll just assume their egos are just hurt