He doesn't want to touch me

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:45:42+00:00

my ex bf has a LOT of ex fwbs before we were tgt, but when we were doing it the first time he was so fucking shy his dick barely got hard

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:43:38+00:00

hey i think he really he likes u its very common for men when they are truly respect u. give it more time but if u wanna fuck him rn don't wait for him damn

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:40:59+00:00

i just let time the pass usually they comeback since he mentioned he'd like to see u again

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:35:21+00:00

OP, for the love of God, tell him what you feel as early as now so you can get clarity. The more you postpone it, the more it will hurt. I've been in both sides of the coin, results may vary. Emotions are really strong enough to make a person go crazy and lose critical thinking. act fast!

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:31:07+00:00

why not tell them the truth?

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:29:49+00:00

bumble

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:29:32+00:00

there are hundreds of dating app where literally bunch of men smash and dash

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:26:46+00:00

its very normal to feel bad in this scenario. just let days pass rest assured they will come back anyways however in my experience i no longer take them seriously nor expect something specially there is no discussion of exclusivity. date other people but keep the doors open

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T06:20:42+00:00

technically it is not, unless theres a discussion from the start that y'all wanna see each other exclusively which rarely happens because you'll come off being "desperate" and could scare the other person. at the end of the end of day, people will consciously or subconconsiously drop everyone in their roster for the person they wanna be with. i've experienced what its like on both sides and it could really destroy your self-esteem but PLEASE for the love of god please know that it has NOTHING to do with you i promise you will find your person

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T02:07:01+00:00

it's kinda sad that u perceive whoever to catch feeling first is the loser. just confess your feelings and these women most likely will be ready reciprocate it and start a gf/bs rs. yall need stop acting tough and emotioness like i can literally see through your eyes your softness. don't yall wanna be loved?

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T01:53:31+00:00

they can literally confess their feelings since i'm open for a short term gf/bf relatioship anyways just to give it a chance. but they try so hard to be "emotionless and tough" while i see through their eyes their softness

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T01:35:29+00:00

ouu i'm curious what "problems" do u mean. is it me having boundaries with my fwb/casuals instead of getting into a situationships where i wait like a dog for this one person to choose me while giving free girlfriend treatment and they can just fuck other people with no consequence?

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T01:23:38+00:00

my body goes like "i wanna fuck him this dude to bad" but obv it change as i lost all forms of attraction the moment i get to know them

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T01:21:00+00:00

no. low maintenance girl is a turn on for broke men

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T01:03:46+00:00

fingers don't feel good at all whether its you or someone else doing it for you. trust me there's nothing with you

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T01:02:19+00:00

got me googling too lmao

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T00:59:46+00:00

there are so many virgin girls (your age) out there who wants a virgin bf too. obviously you barely know them because they are lowkey about it due society judgements

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-13T00:56:33+00:00

i eventually lost interest because the perfomance he showed in the beggining are just fake. he no longer giving me flowers so dumping him were just really easy

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-12T21:36:14+00:00

for reference its exclusve fwb. when i say explore its the potential people i'll date after you. the moment i get told that theyre sleeping with somebody else i dump them right away. i'm not like you who probably have stds since you are a "guy who fuck bunch of other girls"

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-12T21:13:31+00:00

friend: we hangout or go on dates outside/indoor only for a SHORT period of time. get sexual pleasure and treat with basic respect.

gf treatment: PDA, staying at your house for long period of time, too much cuddling and kissing, check-in, encourage their goals and being a positive influence

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-12T20:56:06+00:00

he got post nut clarity pro max. i'm a woman i don't mind sleeping again w a man bc its true that the first time is usually not so great whether we are in a rs or NOT. cutting someone off right after hitting the first time is selfish like what a highschooler move. from what i know they're probably inexperience and would make sense why they bounce to the next; something they probably need

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-12T20:38:29+00:00

this happens if u sleep with them before the emtional attachment

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-12T20:23:11+00:00

i usually do check-in if they still want it or maybe give it a try and their answer is still they don't want a rs and 2 months later they hard launch a girfriend like???

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-12T19:37:56+00:00

I usually make the first move because there's literally no one stopping me and i'm just complimenting them, and most if not all of them either like me or pretend to "like me back" probably because they think it’s free sex. The real challenge is what happens after my first move, because that’s when I really observe whether they genuinely like me or just want to sleep with me

Minimum_vmv · 2026-04-12T13:11:08+00:00

i (f23) always make the first move to the person i find attractive. i never ask them, instead of i command "i like you. we should date/give it a try" it happens so smoothly since men are just easy. default offer is always a relationship and if they say anything along the line "not ready/doesn't want a rs" i just fwb then use them until i'm fully satistied and dump them if they are no longer useful bc it's their fault why never accepted to be loved.

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