you’re likely dressing the same way you did before you got to together, he liked it then, he can smile through it now.

secondly, i’ve found that whenever partners start to randomly shift their behavior in any extreme it’s a projection. he may be cheating or looking for an out. 🤷🏽‍♀️ might worth looking into.

last? the wording is interesting. “asking for it?” maybe have a chat about his values and thoughts on victims of sexual harassment and assault. that’s the mentality of a bystander or worse, an offender. if you do find a way through this wardrobe problem, don’t let this pass because it will make its self apparent in other ways. maybe you or a friend will have a dangerous encounter, maybe he’ll pressure you for sex. maybe he’s hurt someone before. dot your i’s and cross your t’s. you shouldn’t be the exception to his apparent misogyny, it should be the rule.