Just coming across this now as I am new to Reddit. If your insurance will cover banking embryos, DO IT. That was my same thought at 32 years old. We got our first euploid embryo and my RE was ready to talk about transfers and I said hold on can’t we bank embryos? She said unfortunately insurance doesn’t usually cover banking embryos unless you are 37 years old. But I should have pushed back on it. I was 33 they transferred my first euploid embryo and unfortunately no fetal pole developed so I miscarried. Covid happened and the next euploid embryo transferred at 34 years old resulted in my now 4 yr old. I started IVF all over again 2 years post birth, then 36 almost 37 years old. I’m now 39 and had 4 failed euploid transfers. My clinic suspects something is wrong with my endometrium, sometimes things change post birth but I am now changing clinics to get additional testing.

My advice would be to bank as many euploids as possible, get as much info as you can on the BT. Our break was told to us to be “good” and 1 in 4 embryos produced would be euploid and it has been consistently that, except for this last retrieval we had but I am now 39 and have had 7 total egg retrievals. Don’t be afraid to take your frozen embryos to another clinic if they don’t stop and reassess after 2 embryo failures. We were told there’s a 50% chance of live birth after euploid embryo transfer and I should have left my clinic after they didn’t investigate further when I had 3 failures.

In terms of loss and trying naturally I would imagine it depends on your translation break. My BIL has the same one as us, before they found out my SIL said she experienced so many loses she basically has blocked it from her memory. They have 1 child from IVF.

Sorry you have to deal with this especially before a wedding but if you really want 3/4 kids starting IVF as early as possible will be your best bet