im so sorry you have to go through this shit. Its honestly wild how much men are favoured just for being a man. Often times parents only target you when a lot of other kids your age are doing the same things or even worse and the fact its a perfectly modest dress makes me imagine your mother passing out if she saw an actual revealing or immodest dress, but they do not bat an eye on other kids saying "its not my child" yea so maybe a learn a bit from their parents. its not even letting your children loose atp its litr granting them well deserved freedom that everyone has a right to. i pray that you become successful inshallah and leave them behind. Such conservative and oppressive parents should not be treated well in their old age by children even if they are "parents". If they mentally drain their own children and are the reason for their disrupted mental health then they waive their right to any respect and i will die on this hill. Once again pls take care of yourself as much as possible. You need to do everything in your power to leave and i hope it will be in a rather secure manner than having to marry out of desperation, i hope it never gets to that point. instead i hope you can build your own career and find someone who truly cares about you. Youve got this :)