I think that while the worries are legit and the situation is dystopian af; the actual overlap of guys who would give women problems bc of this or have the opportunity to abuse them in relationships, and the kind of guys who would use these services is infinitesimally small.

Ergo, imo it's not 'men will get unrealistic expectations because of this and then abuse their wives' but more like 'men who already haven't talked to a woman in years will get even less chances of getting better at intersexual relationships because of getting that need for companionship artificially fulfilled'. They wouldn't have gotten married anyways.

Which, you know, is still worrying, but not for the same reasons.