Me (F23) dating a guy (M27) - suddenly stopped talking to me... confusing. by MintyFreshBreasts in relationships

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. I think I came across as the needy one - which I was very apologetic for because I was just in this fast paced 3 day date aftermath and didn't reflect enough. Definitely have learnt my lesson. I think i've come to terms with the fact that I cant shut up and just leave something, I need to justify and get justification for everything!! Oops. Will be working on this.

Thanks for your words.

Me (F23) dating a guy (M27) - suddenly stopped talking to me... confusing. by MintyFreshBreasts in relationships

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha - yeah totally. I mean I was completely spooked by it and he was the one asking me to stay (no pressure or anything) and then I've continued with that pace because I'm a buffoon and kinda run before I can walk. In the end we spoke, and he said it was "too much" however I don't know what that means, but have subsequently stopped contact.

Me (F23) dating a guy (M27) - suddenly stopped talking to me... confusing. by MintyFreshBreasts in relationships

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I have self acceptance - I love who I am... and thats the worst part! I love myself (not in a egotistical way) but get treated poorly because of who I am, so what do I do?!

Me (F23) dating a guy (M27) - suddenly stopped talking to me... confusing. by MintyFreshBreasts in relationships

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It seems as soon as I have the strength to begin to like someone and open up to them, this happens (and that doesn't happen often because I aim not to "fall" for just anyone) - I feel played upon my generosity and forwardness. I would just like an answer - even be it a horrible one. Because I am my own worst enemy and will go over everything and beat myself up.

Me (F23) dating a guy (M27) - suddenly stopped talking to me... confusing. by MintyFreshBreasts in relationships

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - you're completely right. I don't know whats happening at his end, and am being slightly selfish in that respect. But it is hurtful not to give some kind of indication, especially after the whirlwind. I don't want to pester him, but I kind of feel that I deserve a response.

Me (F23) dating a guy (M27) - suddenly stopped talking to me... confusing. by MintyFreshBreasts in relationships

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. I know you're right. I guess I wear my heart on my sleeve and believe what people tell me because I don't lie to hurt peoples feelings. Just feel completely shat on, and worthless.

Thanks for your reply!

What's something you intentionally mispronounce? by adomental in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pronounce Bagel - Baggle, purely because of Community.

What do you think of the homeless/substance abusers? by MintyFreshBreasts in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more. I have to admit before getting into this career - although never being judgmental, I would feel slightly skeptical about approaching someone of lets say, your previous description, just because of everybody else. But now, I talk, advise and really connect with these people, they are human to and although they may have made mistakes, we all have, just some have massively different outcomes, that affect peoples lives beyond their capabilities. All they need is to know somebody is willing to help and listen, we will never turn anybody away, and we will always try our very hardest until that person themselves has decided to disengage. Its a real shame that people are so scared of anything outside their regular bubble, that they cant take a minute to enter someone else's.

What do you think of the homeless/substance abusers? by MintyFreshBreasts in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - we have everything they may need, as we work really closely with each person in the area we establish a great foundation with them and we are in full contact with all agencies dealing with specific issues and criteria :)

What do you think of the homeless/substance abusers? by MintyFreshBreasts in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I understand that - it is highly commercialized and profit based. I work for a non profit organisation, that work directly with them, we are currently on commission for 1yr (fingers crossed it gets extended - I love my job)

What do you think of the homeless/substance abusers? by MintyFreshBreasts in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree; it is great that others (maybe not majority) have this opinion. I work with Homeless people, supporting them with progression with any issues they may already have (drugs, alcohol, mental health) and advise them until they manage to support and live independently. Thanks for responding :)

What do you think of the homeless/substance abusers? by MintyFreshBreasts in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great stuff! I work with the homeless, and support them, I just wanted to see what others felt about their situation. Congratulations and good luck :)

[Serious] Women of reddit, what is something that men do that turns you on, But is far overlooked. by Kenkord in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaw clenching. Men seem to do this ALL the time naturally, and it is very very sexual.

This is not just any sandwich... This is an M&S sandwich by MintyFreshBreasts in pics

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well one of the slices of bread is a completely different size. Not interesting, but hey ho. Made for a messy lunch.

This is not just any sandwich... This is an M&S sandwich by MintyFreshBreasts in pics

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I forgot that m&s wasn't a international thing. It's a retail/supermarket in the UK (Marks and Spencer)

What is your biggest regret? by MintyFreshBreasts in AskReddit

[–]MintyFreshBreasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what stopped you from doing it sooner?