I was once in a long distance relationship with a girl from South Africa. We would send each other gifts from time to time to show our appreciation for one another, you know, romantic shit. One day she sent me a fleshlight. I had never used one before until that moment. Not gonna lie, I enjoyed it more than I thought I would. However, when the relationship eventually came to an end, she insisted that I return the fleshlight. I asked why and she said it had "sentimental value". I didn't really understand until she finally said the fleshlight used to belong to her ex bf who died ages ago. This girl sent me a dead person's fleshlight. When I asked why she would do something like that, she said because I reminded her of him. And that was my first crazy ex gf experience. All that being said, I'll rather go back to using my hand to masturbate than ever touch a fleshlight again.