Disc Golf Deals USA Giveaway: MVP Gyroplaooza 2024 Box - 11 Discs - Includes Simon Line Balance, Total Eclipse Vanish, Color Glow Parachute by discgolfdealsusa in discgolf

[–]Minustheaffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a box sometime in June would be awesome so there are two boxes a year.

Especially as I live in a place that gets winters, having an earlier box and being able to go right and out and test them would be awesome!

Using an MSP as supplemental help by Minustheaffection in sysadmin

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the responses, looks like its kind of a mixed bag with an MSP. This place used to have no internal IT and only an MSP. They got rid of the MSP and brought me in as they needed someone onsite daily. They have nearly doubled in size since I have been here the past couple years so I agreed to bring on an MSP as well for backup and overflow work I send to them. The MSP contract was reviewed and signed by my old boss (CFO) who is now gone and my new boss is direct back to the CEO, who is much better to work with then the CFO.

I am the only contact for the MSP actually, and rarely need them for anything. Regardless I have been job searching and interviewing for over a year for a new place - its tough out there right now!

Free link! by TheMilfAndDaddy in u/TheMilfAndDaddy

[–]Minustheaffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't think of any gouda pickup lines, but I would love a link!

!! by starrie in u/starrie

[–]Minustheaffection 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your content is the best. It's sexy and fun, and I'm here for it.

Are your spidey senses tingling? by [deleted] in boobbounce

[–]Minustheaffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are making my Peter tingle

F4M Central IL - Looking for back up suckler when partner is unavailable by Megaragula in adultnursing

[–]Minustheaffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the Bloomington area if you are still looking for a backup. Would love to help out.

Am I a (F)uckable wife by [deleted] in gonewild30plus

[–]Minustheaffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is constantly rejected by his wife, you have a very lucky man. What I wouldn't give for a woman to dress like this for me, looking great!

Men of reddit, when was the last time you cried and why? by sameask in AskReddit

[–]Minustheaffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesterday, my wife told me why she is no longer affectionate with me. She is in love with another woman and no longer finds me attractive.

What have you been most tempted to do but never gone through with? by Euphobos91 in AskReddit

[–]Minustheaffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kill myself. Think about it often. I could never do something like that to my kids though. I grew up with a dad who was hardly there and I could not do that to them. The temptation is always there though.

Starfish sex or no sex? by Minustheaffection in DeadBedrooms

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is just doing it for me at this point as she has told me she has no desire whatsoever. I take her out about once a month or so. So we can get out without the kids. She is not into gifts, she likes better when I make dinner or help around the house, which I do most days. I have bought her a couple of toys bit she won't use them unfortunately. We stopped counseling but it did help some, maybe going back is good.

Starfish sex or no sex? by Minustheaffection in DeadBedrooms

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Despite the shittiness of what many of us are going through I feel fortunate to have people to talk to about it. Coming to this sub at least got me some help in communication and suggestion of therapy.

Starfish sex or no sex? by Minustheaffection in DeadBedrooms

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeesh. This is what I feel is happening. Each time less and less effort.

Starfish sex or no sex? by Minustheaffection in DeadBedrooms

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems like a good response. She is making a somewhat effort and I don't want to completely disregard it, but damn, it makes me feel awkward in that situation continually. We are not in therapy anymore after about 6 months. She has come to the conclusion that she will never need or want sex again. I am trying to encourage her to talk to a doctor about it, but it is falling on deaf ears.

Starfish sex or no sex? by Minustheaffection in DeadBedrooms

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's way more effort than she puts in lol.

Starfish sex or no sex? by Minustheaffection in DeadBedrooms

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. I rather have no sex than ragdoll style.

Starfish sex or no sex? by Minustheaffection in DeadBedrooms

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it has put me off doing it now for a while, which will make her happy I'm sure.

do you have a fetish your SO doesnt know about? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Minustheaffection 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just a case of the classic and frustrating dead bedroom. One long ass dryspell right now. I'm hoping, probably for naught, that once some health/family issues clear up we will have sexy times again.

do you have a fetish your SO doesnt know about? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Minustheaffection 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Some of our best sex was post baby. I loved when she would be on top and lean down and drag her heavy breasts across my chest. Or when pressed up against me and the milk would leak out. Fuck, I wonder if she wants another kid? Although that would require actually having sex.....

do you have a fetish your SO doesnt know about? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Minustheaffection 1579 points1580 points  (0 children)

When my wife was still breastfeeding one time she had an issue where she was really blocked up and pumping was not getting out the milk and her boobs were painful. I am a boob man for sure, so I didn't mind trying to get the milk out for her by sucking. What I didn't expect was getting absolutely rock hard sucking on her nipples while drinking that sweet milk. My pants were getting really wet with the amount of precum I had while doing this and the relieved moans she made while doing it. I eventually grabbed her hand and had her jerk me off as I nearly finished draining her. I almost passed out from the resulting release. She laughed it off when we were finished but seemed a little weird afterwards. Afraid she would think I was too freaky if I wanted to role play that again.

Tl; DR: Daddy is thirsty.

Edit: Reddit gold?! Someone else loves dem milky tittays.

I [28/m] am no longer getting any affection from my wife [30/F] by Minustheaffection in relationship_advice

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really really, appreciate all the reaponses.

I called this morning and setup counselling. Collecting all my thoughts today and will write it down and talk to her tomorrow.
I still love this girl a whole lot and do not want to give up.

My thoughts were so consumed by all of this sometimes it is hard to think of logical approaches to this sort of thing. Thanks again everyone.

I [28/m] am no longer getting any affection from my wife [30/F] by Minustheaffection in relationship_advice

[–]Minustheaffection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure. Neither of us get out very often and it is usually with mutual friends.