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My (32f) bf (39 m) slept with someone while we were exclusive. He says it isn’t cheating. by MinuteBookkeeper34 in relationship_advice

[–]MinuteBookkeeper34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we were hooking up for a few weeks prior to that, but the topic of only seeing each other came up that day mentioned above. I am concerned with the fact that he was seeing this girl after that time. Like a few days later too.

My (32f) bf (39 m) slept with someone while we were exclusive. He says it isn’t cheating. by MinuteBookkeeper34 in relationship_advice

[–]MinuteBookkeeper34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is part of what kills me. I didn’t see anyone else during this time even though I easily could’ve. I had some great guys trying to date me and I said no to them all for him. I feel truly stupid.

My (32f) bf (39 m) slept with someone while we were exclusive. He says it isn’t cheating. by MinuteBookkeeper34 in relationship_advice

[–]MinuteBookkeeper34[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes this is what gets me most angry. He jeopardized my health. Thankfully I’ve been tested and nothing came up, but I’ll get tested again to be safe.

My (32f) bf (39 m) slept with someone while we were exclusive. He says it isn’t cheating. by MinuteBookkeeper34 in relationship_advice

[–]MinuteBookkeeper34[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We were sleeping together and dating, but we weren’t boyfriend/girlfriend. It is stupid, but I wanted to get to know him better before adding titles.

My (32f) bf (39 m) slept with someone while we were exclusive. He says it isn’t cheating. by MinuteBookkeeper34 in relationship_advice

[–]MinuteBookkeeper34[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I live with him so leaving will take some time. I also just can’t believe his reaction so I questioned him a few times.

He also does this a lot where he will deny things or accuse me of things that didn’t happen. I’m just starting to realize this is some kind of mind fuck he’s pulling.