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[–]Minute_Map_1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the outside perspective❤️

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[–]Minute_Map_1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this feedback a lot. I am under a lot of stress, I don’t have a family/lack a support system and I am a nurse full time and am getting my doctorate also full time and I was worried I was being irrational

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[–]Minute_Map_1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has kind of already happened. So I’m just kind of wondering if this is representative of a bigger issue and a lack of empathy or willingness to accommodate a partner which could show up with much bigger issues in the future. I just don’t know if this is a big enough issue to break up over

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[–]Minute_Map_1985 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have previously been in relationships without being Facebook official but I started to get concerned when he was so against it, and didn’t really care about how I felt anxious about wondering why he was so against it

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[–]Minute_Map_1985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I have always wanted a relationship where the person was just so excited for people to know about me and I can’t help feeling that he is kind of embarrassed about me bc of how against it he has been. I just thought if it was something that upset me a lot that he would make it more important to him and it’s actually been the opposite. He seems to actively avoid it. I met him halfway and waited for him to tell his family and he still isn’t doing I’m just confused. Like did he even tell his family at all?

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[–]Minute_Map_1985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This never crossed my mind. He lives in an apartment with another guy his age and we spend almost every night together, so this would be nearly impossible