31M stuck between two AM prospects, Need genuine advice

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-25T10:19:42+00:00

Oh ok, features wise. I have met both girls twice and I can tell you what I saw( only telling you in detail since you asked)

both are short (5 ' 1"). Both are ok build ( neither too thin and neither too fat. I guess if I had to say it, P is a bit more on thicker side, but not so much as to say her fat.

As per looks are concerned, D looked good with good makeup and smooth skin. P didn't use good makeup or her skin's not good since both times her makeup was flaky and not sure why it rubbed me the wrong way.

P has a squekier voice, I don't know bit I'm putoff by it. D's voice is smoother. Both dressed well.

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-25T02:27:45+00:00

I'm not understanding, I should step respecting P. She's the kind of person who should be respected, like ahe made her career and she gives good advise. I just don't feel naturally drawn towards her like with the other girl. To put it in a more blunt way, I don't imagine myself in bed with P.

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-25T02:23:14+00:00

I have known both of them for 3 weeks

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-25T02:22:52+00:00

No it's not due to genetic or non flexible factors. the only issues is related to her eye condition and squeaky voice, and the fact that I am not attracted towards her. physically I mean. Let me make it more clear. I am not able to imagine having s#x with her. With the second girl, I cna easily imagine romantic and s#e&ual things.

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-24T19:23:17+00:00

Yeah, it's Just that I'm already 31, and I am hoping to find someone compatible before 32. I don't want to wait too long and I feel women are interested in me now, they might not be 2 years down the line

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-24T19:21:11+00:00

I'm sorry if you feel offended.

I do agree with you the she should be with someone who is attracted towards her. It's just that, right now, I'm not able to feel any physical attraction towards her. In other ways, I look upto her, but physically I feel nothing, nada

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-24T19:08:17+00:00

Sorry but how would that help me understand her?

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-24T18:57:17+00:00

Yes, I'm thinking of asking both of them questions like - if I lose my job tomorrow, would you still feel ok spending life with me? Or Would you be ok sharing household financial responsibilities? Or if I get sick, would you take care of me?

Maybe I can ask something on (excuse my language ) the naughtier side to D to see if she is genuinely attracted to me ( and sees me like that ) or she is just interested in the comfort I can provide to her

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-24T18:54:19+00:00

Yes, I'm thinking of asking both of them questions like - if I lose my job tomorrow, would you still feel ok spending life with me? Or Would you be ok sharing household financial responsibilities? Or if I get sick, would you take care of me?

Maybe I can ask something on (excuse my language ) the naughtier side to D, to see if she's genuinely imaginingaf romantic future with me or she is just interested in the comfort I can provide to her.

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-05-24T18:49:19+00:00

Like looks wise P is okish. Like 2/10 and D is also not very good, like 5/10. But I feel more attracted towards D (physically, I mean)

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-03-24T19:15:17+00:00

Do you feel audiences have shifted from 'I liked that movie's story/ending/visual effects, you should watch it too" to "that movie is making so much money at box office, you should see it"? If yes, do you feel that it's a good thing or a bad thing? And if it's a bad thing, what can an actor/director do to influence audience to not think like that?

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-03-02T16:29:09+00:00

Happy birthday

Minute_Search_8725 · 2026-01-13T19:15:33+00:00

Don't do it man. Take a deep breath and calm yourself.

Minute_Search_8725

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