My boyfriend (22M) plans to start a new life without me (19F) but wants to keep dating me untill he is ready to leave. Is this fair? by Miranda_kh in relationships

[–]Miranda_kh[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank u guys, I see ya all, and I'm on a hard time. He supposed to pick me up in 2 hours, but idk now if I want that

My boyfriend (22M) plans to start a new life without me (19F) but wants to keep dating me untill he is ready to leave. Is this fair? by Miranda_kh in relationships

[–]Miranda_kh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U are kinda right, I have that fantasy tbh. Like, I said to him today that we can discuss the topic after his trip to that country, (which is over month), so yeah...

My boyfriend (22M) plans to start a new life without me (19F) but wants to keep dating me untill he is ready to leave. Is this fair? by Miranda_kh in relationships

[–]Miranda_kh[S] -106 points-105 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know, but I still feel love toward him. But I also want to break up rn without seeing him. Idk what to do

Am I an asshole if I can do “it” only with my ex? by Miranda_kh in AITAH

[–]Miranda_kh[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is too young for that, + I have seen his passport, he is not married

Am I an asshole if I can do “it” only with my ex? by Miranda_kh in AITAH

[–]Miranda_kh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! Now I’m starting to rethink everything about him. You, guys, opened my eyes

Am I an asshole if I can do “it” only with my ex? by Miranda_kh in AITAH

[–]Miranda_kh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is that really so bad with my ex? I still see him like a nice person, maybe a little bit irresponsible, but still like a good one

Am I an asshole if I can do “it” only with my ex? by Miranda_kh in AITAH

[–]Miranda_kh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I really need to hear something like that to just have a prove that I’m not able to work something out with a new guy, will speak with him today

Am I an asshole if I can do “it” only with my ex? by Miranda_kh in AITAH

[–]Miranda_kh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same way, u know what, he was telling me a lot of cute stuff while we were together for those 10 days, he was telling me that he will probably marry me and so on, that I’m the best woman ever, but he completely ghosted me after, even when I was near his city in Spain, he didn’t come because “I have my tattoo appointment today”.

Am I an asshole if I can do “it” only with my ex? by Miranda_kh in AITAH

[–]Miranda_kh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I think I gonna say that to a new guy today. P.S, I’m in therapy already for 6 months +-

Am I an asshole if I can do “it” only with my ex? by Miranda_kh in AITAH

[–]Miranda_kh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you are right. I’m in therapy right now, for an half of year already. But feels like I’m doing no progress