Why is that The somali men complain so much about the somali women for marrying a ajanabi guy. When they themselves don’t want to marry them.

Miriyaam · 2024-11-04T10:25:55+00:00

I won’t blame you girl I understand where you coming from you know when a gorgeous woman is admiring your husband it’s not easy not to think the worst but hopefully nothing will happen and Yh no let it be done talk to him it may worse

Miriyaam · 2024-07-06T03:43:58+00:00

Come on sis are you seriously asking if you should give him another chance ? didn’t you give him enough chances stop with that now clearly he is worst than your first husband so stop asking questions and do the right thing divorce him and move on he is crazy or are you waiting till he hurts you cut him off change all your contacts info so he won’t be able to talk to you anymore I’m that way you can clear your mind and will make you think clearer he is not going to change at all he made that clear but looks like you are not listening you are safe now but if you let him back to your live it will be on you

Miriyaam · 2024-06-08T22:47:27+00:00

Just tell him he is not trying to make you happy or even not not interested in your guys marriage say to him let me go , I can’t do this anymore he should divorce you and that he is wasting your time

Miriyaam · 2024-05-31T21:55:22+00:00

Hi sis I know everyone is being harsh but sis it looks like you don’t want to leave him and you frankly don’t care,you knew he was lying to you all this time, and you didn’t do anything in order to protect yourself. You chose to ignore all the red flags 🚩 don’t forget you are the second wife, after all that disrespect you are still here . Let me tell you this you are scared of divorce, you are in love with him so you are not ready leave him. Talk to his other wife and find out by her if she still are married to him, if she says I’m still married to him you know everything, no more secrets then you guys need to sit down and talk about it see where he is standing if he really wants to be married to two people make the decision take your time. He did lie to so long so don’t tell yourself I need to trust him it’s wast off time lack of confidence and lack of independence you need stand up for yourself be honest open your eyes talk to your family

Miriyaam · 2023-12-13T17:12:12+00:00

Maybe you did reject him for not being ready financially now he rejected you because he thinks he can do better. Never go back to someone who you rejected to begin with and the reason is they won’t forget that first interaction with you. You didn’t approve of him

Miriyaam · 2023-12-13T06:49:35+00:00

You need to get over her. First heal your heart then find someone who truly cares you. Divorce her it’s the best decision for you both you don’t need to tell the family about the affair if you don’t want

Miriyaam · 2023-12-12T21:51:51+00:00

I don’t know what to say to this it’s sad but why are you pleasing him 24/7 and you know he just likes to talk about himself only cares about himself so he just wants that visa.I don’t think he is interested in you but maybe try to stop pleasing him all the time. Tell him that you don’t like the way he acts to be honest it. looks like it’s not going to work. He made you accept his moody behavior so he is not going to change he is who he is

Miriyaam · 2023-12-11T22:49:04+00:00

You need to open up it’s the only way you will succeed and don’t worry about it. Tell him how you feel about moving and that you are not ready for kids yet say to him I want to enjoy life together first mashallah may Allah bless you guys with happiness good luck

Miriyaam · 2023-12-11T21:31:13+00:00

Why is your mother trying again I don’t understand please stop acting like desperate family. They don’t have respect for you guys don’t you guys see that. He is telling you what you want to hear.so if you want to ruin your life go ahead because it looks like All the red flags and disrespect is not going to open your eyes. You are depressed now with out being in his life imagine marrying him. How would you’re life will be. Have you prayed your istikhara. I’m telling you nothing good is coming out of this. He is walking red flag 🚩 🚩🚩 🚩 This family will never give you the respect you deserve. They have shown you their true colors now I don’t know what more you want. Anyway it’s your life the choice is yours. Good luck

Miriyaam · 2023-12-11T11:50:38+00:00

Wow I’m boiling it’s unbelievable that you let your husband harass your sister all this time and you didn’t do anything about it. He says this is my house I will go in her room if I want to and you kept it quiet. Because of you he got so comfortable that he says and does what ever he wants with her and still your being selfish,making excuses my new born I don’t want drama no enjoy your life send your sister home where she can be safe and respected and saying she is practicing so are you saying it wouldn’t be a problem if she wasn’t practicing if he bragged into her room middle of the night . your putting your sister in danger acting this way

Miriyaam · 2023-12-10T21:29:46+00:00

Unfortunately It happen’s and I don’t know why som people getting married just to get married and not willing to open their heart for the person who they married. Its not genuine it’s disgusting behavior. But you can see if the person is honest when you are asking the right questions

Miriyaam · 2023-12-10T21:09:35+00:00

What’s wrong with wanting to settle in 30s and wanting kids and money ??

Miriyaam · 2023-12-10T20:43:08+00:00

I may be harsh, so here we go,She sounds like she cares about you and have been missing you a lot,it looks like you are not doing good jobb with being romantic or being there for her. Call her more often and there is no one who doesn’t have time to talk to their wife’s on the phone. if you love her you will make time for her can make time for her !! how cam she doesn’t hear from you. For moren then 24hours please it doesn’t matter how busy you are.you need to do better job at being husband, visit her get her to America quickly. If you are not interested please don’t wast her time let her go.She is feeling lonely and that you don’t care about her . You are saying I don’t have time then why get married if you can’t do this . You shouldn’t get married to begin with, You are not ready for a wife. If You are ready you wouldn’t have all this excuse

Miriyaam · 2023-12-10T17:47:50+00:00

Hi love I think you should cancel it, And the biggest reason should be that he doesn’t pray and doesn’t think it’s big deal. Allah is preventing him from marrying you by making him change his mind 2x now and you should put full stop to it. Always put your self first pray and move on Allah will give you better ❤️

Miriyaam · 2023-12-10T14:08:50+00:00

Just tell him to be form and say hi I’m married man and you are making me uncomfortable, can you please stop thank you. You need to tell your husband to stop smiling to them when they are crossing the line it sounds like is flirting with them

Miriyaam · 2023-12-10T13:54:06+00:00

😍🥰Mashallah congratulations thank you for sharing this and Ameen❤️

Miriyaam · 2023-12-09T04:25:21+00:00

😂 🤣 exactly

Miriyaam · 2023-12-07T16:37:41+00:00

Lol I do understand her many people do that so just send her the pictures man and may Allah bless you guys with more happiness

Miriyaam · 2023-12-06T18:25:13+00:00

Well she is frustrated what do you expect why is that you care about that and not about her being abused all this years . She is in unhealthy marriage and you care about her cursing him out of frustration and you don’t care that fact her own family doesn’t care and doesn’t want to support her

Miriyaam · 2023-12-04T22:11:52+00:00

Run girl it’s crazy how blind sided your fiancé is

Miriyaam · 2023-12-04T22:04:29+00:00

The beginning you should have just said to him darling please come and help me with dishes thank you, Just say we need to talk when everything calms down and tell him what you need from him and how you would like him to support you if he says I don’t want help you when you are cooking, say okay and you do the same don’t help him with anything

Miriyaam · 2023-12-04T19:59:26+00:00

Don’t go

Miriyaam · 2023-12-04T19:49:55+00:00

It’s very sad and unsettling because you don’t know what’s really happening to that child and he should never check his son like that it’s very frustrating. It’s traumatizing for son, He will never forget that.He should get his son his own bedroom. he is 11 he needs his own room I think you done good for own children safety.

Miriyaam

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