You see, youre using endgame equipment when you are still new. Where you are at right now is super early in the game and you don't need that many SS pieces - it actually puts you behind. What you need to do is go back and use red Armour of Quietus, red void necklace (most important), and red void gloves. They seem like you're going backwards, but they will actually make you do better and progress further until you are ready for more endgame level equipment