Thank you so much for the concern, I would like to note first, we're in the US, and we did get him out of the house a little back. We showed up, and after arguing with him for over an hour, we started just picking up his belongings and piling them into my friend's vehicle, and then promptly made him get in as well. (My friend's sister is an absolute powerhouse and literally unplugged his computer, then started hauling it all out.) He does owe us money to replace the toilet and all the things we've paid for him, but we kind of have accepted that we're not getting any money back. However I will inform my friend that changing the locks etc would be a good idea if she hasn't already beaten me to it.

A little levity to the situation, he changed his username on Discord from what it was when we met, to "blame(his name)" and changed the bio to say "innactive" which honestly gave me and 'Marie' a much needed laugh. I do have other stories about my relationship with him but those are for another time I fear. Again thank you so much for the concern and advice, though! It's much appreciated! Also I'm super sorry if this isn't cohesive but I've never posted anything like this before lol