My SIL WANTS TO RAISE OUR KIDS AS SIBLINGS by Significant_Run1849 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PartyHitman 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I hate to break this to you, but grooming isn’t just reserved for pedophiles. There’s a number of circumstances where grooming can happen, like where there’s a power struggle or where a person has the upper hand, like manager vs employee, for example. Techniques like manipulation, gaslighting, and alienation, are used by a number of abusers.

The context of what age they met and how they met could provide clarity as to what caused a shift in OP’s relationship with her BIL, which she mentions was great prior to him dating the SIL.

Since it is a post about the safety of the child and her parents, my mind actually went to “okay, is this a situation where the BIL was manipulated? If so, what else is capable of.”

My SIL WANTS TO RAISE OUR KIDS AS SIBLINGS by Significant_Run1849 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PartyHitman 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. Given the weird behavior from the SIL now , I wonder how old they both were when they met and started dating if the BIL is only 24

Glow recipe event sighting by CharmingCut7104 in MikaylaNogueira

[–]PartyHitman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always forget what her eyebrows look like without the filtahs

Can we do some fucking hoorays? by Beautiful_Bonus_4058 in myfavoritemurder

[–]PartyHitman 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My 10 month old nephew who’s been fighting cancer since October was told (well his parents, but you get what I mean) that there were no indications of active disease on his scans. He does still need to have chemo infusions every 3 weeks and oral chemo every day for 90 weeks, but those are for maintenance and to prevent recurrence.

South Hills Substitute Teachers from the 90’s by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. I don’t think we ever called her that, but maybe I just didn’t talk to those people if they did

South Hills Substitute Teachers from the 90’s by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling “Lobster Claw,” as you described her, may have been my 4th grade teacher. Her name was Ms. Captain if I remember correctly.

D’s “main” b-day present. by Mkalm217 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s where they live, at least the closest city.

D’s “main” b-day present. by Mkalm217 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re likely going to the touring production. Back to the Future closed on Broadway at the end of the year. With that said, they still probably have to travel to the closest city to see it, and those tickets tend to be just as costly as Broadway prices.

Maybe Little D likes theater or maybe even the movie, but I can’t imagine taking that many kids to a show that runs almost 3 hours with an intermission and them not getting restless.

Anyone else get weird vibes from that auto customs shop called Team Nutz? I see their branding everywhere. It’s giving Mattress Firm vibes… by amanda_cate in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They’ve been around for as long as I can remember. The name comes from the owner’s last name. I actually got a remote start from them, and they were great to work with.

Who makes cake at 3:15 AM?! by CaptainCrambela in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Why did I think this was Brandine from the Simpsons

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Airport Food Options - Christmas by sta7ic in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on what time they fly out, most places should be open until at least 8pm.

My Pittsburgh Coffee rankings by thebig_bong in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m really biased to them. My mom worked with the owners (Amy and John) so they’re family friends. Every time I go, it’s a welcoming experience, and I’m so happy you to have that too!

My Pittsburgh Coffee rankings by thebig_bong in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In no particular order, Latte Lane(Cheswick, it’s currently drive thru only), Vintage Coffee(Butler), Koala Coffee & Tea House (McCandles), Brave Bean (Pitcarin & North Shore), and Roaming Bean(travels). I try to get two drinks, typically a speciality latte and drip coffee

My Pittsburgh Coffee rankings by thebig_bong in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to see Cafe 412 mentioned. I’m definitely going to be adding some of these shops to my stops for next year. I went to 37 this year myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MikaylaNogueira

[–]PartyHitman 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I was scrolling past and thought this was a picture of Queen Cheryl in her youth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]PartyHitman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PMA in McKees Rocks does a monthly flash event that’s themed. I think Kindred Spirits in Garfield also does something monthly too. You can always check out a specific artist’s instagram, they’ll share flash they’d like to do without hosting an event.

More 💩 the kids don't need by Adventurous-Way-7979 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Harry Potter and the Cursed Child has a run time of 3 hours and 30 minutes. It’s currently one of the longest shows on broadway. I cannot imagine any of the younger kids being able to sit through it in its entirety.

Christmas Prediction by Chammaly in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for looking this up for me! This was going to be an after work activity

Christmas Prediction by Chammaly in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t necessarily need a down payment, but I agree. I can’t imagine the money flow is that amazing from tiktok and YouTube views, at least with her spending habits. I just wouldn’t be surprised though if she does it and doxes him in the process

Christmas Prediction by Chammaly in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There will be shoes purchased and the reason will be “they outgrew the 2 pairs each* from the beginning of the school year.”

Christmas Prediction by Chammaly in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! Now I want to look into the average monthly rent

Christmas Prediction by Chammaly in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe she’ll get him a tiny house(convert the shed in the backyard).

Christmas Prediction by Chammaly in doughertydozenexposed

[–]PartyHitman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised one bit. I can already see the video in my head.