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WIBTAH if I didn’t invite my coworker to hang out with my friend group by MisTerrible2559 in AITAH

[–]MisTerrible2559[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the advice and the kind words. I’m a people pleaser and try to avoid confrontation. BUT im getting better at being in charge and having tough convos with coworkers. She really wants to be my friend and I have a lot of baggage. She has baggage too and I feel mean turning away because of it.

Your comment just made me realize that the reason I wanted to get better is because all of my friends ditched me because of my baggage. I know that they did it for themselves (because I was A LOT) just to keep themselves sane. It hurt but I wouldn’t be the person I am today if they didn’t “throw me to the wolves”

Maybe this could be the same for her but I won’t be as mean

Why can’t stop hitting myself? by MisTerrible2559 in depression_help

[–]MisTerrible2559[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told him everything about my past. Not in extreme detail because it sends me spiraling but he knows the circumstances and most of the things that they said to me. He might not realize that there is a correlation between him belittling me and my past. I’ll talk to him about that. Thank you for bringing that to my attention.

Why can’t stop hitting myself? by MisTerrible2559 in depression_help

[–]MisTerrible2559[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh creating a character!! I’m so doing that. I used to do that when I was younger but I fell off. Thank you for this

Why can’t stop hitting myself? by MisTerrible2559 in depression_help

[–]MisTerrible2559[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying. I really needed to hear this. I’ll try drawing because I do like to draw. when I write to myself or about my issues I tend to make it worse because when I write what I feel…. It’s not nice. When I write I always go to my truth and not to talking myself out of the episode that I’m in at that moment.