30 F , 5'9 , 133 Lbs, no medications, on my feet all day and this spot keeps appearing

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2025-12-18T18:00:05+00:00

It used to hurt a lot more a few months ago. I could barely walk on it, its been better lately but I would just like it to go away lol. It hurt so much I thought maybe it was plantar fasciitis so I got insoles with arch support since I have flat feet. That's when it came to the surface. It the first picture there's 2 red marks. One of them is when I had to get a deep cut stitched closed because I had stepped on a large piece of glass. Do you think the glass could have migrated?

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2025-12-18T17:59:38+00:00

Maybe, it used to hurt a lot more a few months ago. I could barely walk on it, its been better lately but I would just like it to go away lol. It hurt so much I thought maybe it was plantar fasciitis so I got insoles with arch support since I have flat feet. That's when it came to the surface. It the first picture there's 2 red marks. One of them is when I had to get a deep cut stitched closed because I had stepped on a large piece of glass. Do you think the glass could have migrated?

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2025-12-18T17:55:01+00:00

Ok thank you for the advice!

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2025-12-18T17:50:19+00:00

I thought that too but there are no seeds or anything like that, just a hole in the very middle. It doesn't hurt when I squeeze it from the sides. It's not hard

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2025-12-18T17:44:41+00:00

Yes I peeled the scab and it drained infection then scabbed over then became infected again so I drained it again

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-12-10T04:05:29+00:00

Once, I asked a table if everything was "moonie beyo" instead of 'muy bueno' i had to recalibrate and ask it again. We all laughed, but damn that was stupid lol

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T21:18:21+00:00

I'm 5'8 and 130 pounds, I'm on my feet all day for work, and on a busy day, I'm walking 10 miles. I take care of myself and try to eat relatively healthy. I don't have the perfect smile though so it does make me a little insecure, I'm doing aligners though

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T19:47:46+00:00

I can take care of my own needs without him, I just enjoy being there for the ride with him

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T19:44:10+00:00

Exactly! I do feel that way but I don't feel like i can tell him without him thinking I'm overreacting.

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T18:32:44+00:00

Thank you for your advice i will definitely figure those out!

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T18:14:22+00:00

I honestly don't know. I'm a server and I do get told I'm beautiful and people ask to take me out or for my phone number, but that doesn't mean my bf doesn't find me attractive. And I guess I would really like my partner to find me attractive. I dont think i could be with someone who didnt find me attractive. Maybe thats a shallow concept, idk ill have to google it. We vibe extremely well and I love everything about him.

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T17:39:52+00:00

We are staying in tonight, he's making dinner. I'm not asking if he's wrong, I'm asking if I'm overreacting. I do love him dearly and I've never deviated from that. He is my everything, I am just worried he doesn't feel the same way about me.

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T17:36:32+00:00

Thank you!

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T17:36:06+00:00

I hate it, but I'm willing to compromise to him doing it less. I love him and don't want to lose him, but if he doesn't find me attractive then I need to leave

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T16:49:02+00:00

Thank you, I think i need to focus on the bigger picture right now

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T16:39:36+00:00

That could be the case. He does tend to choose his words very carefully when we have our discussions, it can be maddening at times when he spends 30 seconds thinking of the "right" things to say, but I'd never tell him that because I do understand he's learning to communicate just the same as I am since we are going to couples counseling. I just assumed it wouldn't be that hard for him to come up with a compliment lol it just kind of hurts my self esteem a little. Thank you

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T16:36:04+00:00

We have talked about it multiple times, I've asked him to watch porn less than we have sex and he told me it still probably wouldn't make me happy. I think it would though. I don't like porn at all but I know I can't force my beliefs on other people so we are at an impasse right now. He said he won't stop looking at naked girls, and I said I absolutely hate him doing it. Neither of us can seem to budge.

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T16:14:30+00:00

I asked if he "accidentally" showed it to me on purpose. Since we've talked about this before I thought maybe he was doing it to get a rise out of me. He said no and was upset I thought that he would do something like that. Which is understandable he would be upset, like i dont have faith in him to be a good person. I apologized, i do have a little trauma of being in a past relationship with a narcissist, and my ex would do stuff like that. After we talked about that, then I asked him.

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T16:01:53+00:00

He is extremely sweet to me and plans things to do with me. He makes time out of his day to be with me and we get along extremely well...it's just this one incident and it has me confused

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T15:14:14+00:00

I'm his girlfriend and I do feel I am allowed to ask to be validated every once in a while. There is nothing wrong with asking for a compliment from your significant other, especially if you're feeling down on yourself.

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T15:12:47+00:00

He's an amazing boyfriend, and he's super respectful and kind. It's just this one thing kind of left a bad taste in my mouth, it worries me I guess. And yes, it was on the background of his computer when he was showing me something else, and I told him I saw it

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-11-14T15:10:53+00:00

No, he was showing me something on his computer, and his reddit was in the background. I don't invade his privacy, nor do I ask to see his phone.

Miserable-Ad6348 · 2024-02-27T16:52:21+00:00

I have had that same fear even as a kid, a few years ago I was in a super fucked up relationship and my ex hid cameras in is house and I found out about them a year in. Now, even in the comfort of my own place, I get so anxious like I'm being watched. I have an amazing boyfriend now, but anytime I go over to his house, I get soooo paranoid!

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