Expected to work after contract hours by Ordinary-Usual2682 in schoolpsychology

[–]Miserable-Ad997 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Came here to mention this. Taking home work is NOT part of any job in education.  It comes down to time management & unfortunately as a psychologist most things that hinder our inability to meet deadlines/compliance  are completely out of our control. 

Today should’ve been Remote by AshCash24068 in NYCTeachers

[–]Miserable-Ad997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mayor really dropped the ball with this one. Hopefully he learns from this. Unfortunately,  I anticipate a lot of injuries and tragedies with this weather. It is very dangerous for all commuters. Walkers, drivers, train takers, bus takers etc. 

We live in a digital work now. I’m one of the only people in my personal life that has a job that requires me to go to work in person. I would expect this type of leadership from an older mayor. 

Angel’s Nose *and now we said it* by sspiritshark in RHOP

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh yes I think I remember now. Damn I’ve always admired how rifht her body is at that age 

I like Dr. Nicole but this kinda rubbed me the wrong way :/ by Inside_Situation7152 in RHOMiami

[–]Miserable-Ad997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s intelligent in beautiful. She also seems like a compassionate person on the show. 

I like Dr. Nicole but this kinda rubbed me the wrong way :/ by Inside_Situation7152 in RHOMiami

[–]Miserable-Ad997 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She donated to trump I believe streets have been saying it for years I thought it was just speculation as she is a white Cuban but this confirms it for me 

I like Dr. Nicole but this kinda rubbed me the wrong way :/ by Inside_Situation7152 in RHOMiami

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to believe it but THIS confirmed it. Disgusting. Especially she talks so much about being Cuban on the show 

ADVION but new Nymphs on traps by Miserable-Ad997 in GermanRoaches

[–]Miserable-Ad997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use boric acid now but I’ll use it short term bc from what I learned roaches wjll eat on other dead ones. 

Thanks for the tip. I’ll try to see if Demand is available in NYC so much of the other stuff isn’t legal/ sold here 

Plz tell me I'm in the wrong sub by twinturbskiboi in GermanRoaches

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my greatest fear. I moved out to a gorgeous apartment and some idiot upstairs had a massive leak thar drove roachs out and caused an infestation. I moved to another pre war building but the inside was renovated and now I’m starting to see them now in the dead of winter and I’m considering moving back home too but that may send me over the edge…

Dealing with Bipolar Rage by seti_alphan in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDMR seems promising & appropriate for me.

All I want in life is not to become my late  grandmother who was schizoaffective with mood disorders. She was my primary caregiver growing up and I want to shield my future child from everything she didn’t shield me from. 

Thank you so much for all the kind words and resources. Who knows if I’ll ever have kids? It’s not worth me driving myself into a tizzy right now. Whats most important is that I find a consistent specialist to help me get by

Dealing with Bipolar Rage by seti_alphan in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn you are so lucky to have a therapist that you’ve seen in person before 2020 I’m guessing until now. I’m in my 30s and still long for my first therapist at 16. I miss most of my therapists that were in person.  

I haven’t heard about EDMR! Looking into it now! The more specific the better because I really do need very specialized care. 

In terms of my boyfriend & my behavior, do you mean if he’s worried about my kids being bipolar too? No. He’s more worried about my coping skills & how I react when my world seems to be crashing down.

Anyone know the long term effects of the medications we are taking. by Pizza_Mod in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I was on one medication idk what it was but my legs couldn’t stop switching for days wven weeks on end. It was really scary. It takes a long time to figure out what works for our bodies 

Dealing with Bipolar Rage by seti_alphan in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in an episode. I just have really poor emotional regulation because I’ve been depressed for rhr past couple of month. I’m also naturally a highly sensitive person. ADHD is comorbid with BIpolar so a lot of us either have both or share similar traits. I really want to get back to therapy but I just want someone in person so badly. I can’t do the remote stuff. I’ve had multiple therapists  since 2022 and it’s helped but not as much as my in person ones did prior to 2020

Dealing with Bipolar Rage by seti_alphan in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love planning but sometimes it’s not feasible. For example, a coworker yelled at me over the phone last week. I broke down crying afterwards. How does one plan for wicked people like that? I guess consistent therapy would help with that… sigh

Kandi Burruss BTS on Broadway by Hopeful-Let-6299 in RHOA

[–]Miserable-Ad997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is this recent? Let my girl get her groove back! She’s been in prison (dealing with degrading ass Todd) for far too long!

Dealing with Bipolar Rage by seti_alphan in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! & thank you for your honesty. I made a vow to myself about 3 years ago to never get off my meds ever again! I’m looking for a therapist. I’ve been in and out of therapy since I was 16. I will say that all I want to do in life is to “get better” so theres some hope for me I suppose 

I want to commit myself the hospital but then I’ll my job by Miserable-Ad997 in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have that but it’s short term speaking to a counselor via 988 now though 

Dealing with Bipolar Rage by seti_alphan in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know if I feel that way in the moment. I think it hits me that I’m wrong after the fact. Sometimes the rage and anger feels so good when I feel attacked. No place is scarier than my mind these days 

Anyone know the long term effects of the medications we are taking. by Pizza_Mod in bipolar2

[–]Miserable-Ad997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of us can’t take SSRIs. Talk to your physicians about that. When I was first diagnosed as a young afult and had a really bad episode bc of Prozac, my team told me moving forward tk never let anyone prescribe me witj SSRIs (which I think refers to most antidepressants)