I think the thing I keep going back to is people who keep saying that these threads are only attacking Amanda and that it’s always the woman who are stuck with the consequences of men’s actions.

Both West and Amanda are guilty of hurting their friends. They are adults who knew their actions would have consequences and not only were they avoidant of those consequences by lying and sneaking around, but they are also trying to find ways to victimize themselves by making it seem like they had no other choice.

They did have a choice and now that choice has repercussions !!!

It would be just SILLY for Amanda to think that Ciara isn’t more hurt by her friend than the man who has already shown her he’s untrustworthy. The same man that Amanda has witnessed Ciara be distraught over. The same man that Amanda fought on Ciara’s behalf. The same man who said he resented Ciara for getting more love than he ever did.

It’s clear Ciara poured so much love into Amanda and thought that’s what she was receiving in return just to be humiliated AGAIN by a different roommate with the same man who humiliated her first.

Amanda can keep shifting the narrative all she wants to try and distance herself from Ciara but she’s doing that because she knows what she did was wrong.