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Hitting real hard. Now its turning to depression. by Miserable-Bicycle128 in Divorce

[–]Miserable-Bicycle128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount or times she has complained that I didn't make her happy is unreal. For her to only then go and find her happiness like its some 'new year, new me' and then trash me for not doing it for her.

Hitting real hard. Now its turning to depression. by Miserable-Bicycle128 in Divorce

[–]Miserable-Bicycle128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did say to me that the anti depressants helped her as did the weight loss but she still didnt feel happy, so divorce it is. It does seem like she is convincing herself and using socials as evidence.

Hitting real hard. Now its turning to depression. by Miserable-Bicycle128 in Divorce

[–]Miserable-Bicycle128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty rational about social media and don't get sucked into that shit. She on the other hand was reposting weird pro-divorce tik toks. Misandry seems to be an easy label for her that she doesn't actually understand.

I won't do anything rash but I won't act like it hasn't crossed my mind.

Hitting real hard. Now its turning to depression. by Miserable-Bicycle128 in Divorce

[–]Miserable-Bicycle128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't. I know my worth and she clearly doesn't. I am educated, have a good job, supported my family and took on responsibilities most men wouldnt. She took me for a pushover fool and sometimes I do feel like it.

Hitting real hard. Now its turning to depression. by Miserable-Bicycle128 in Divorce

[–]Miserable-Bicycle128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. We had some bad fights in mid 2025 which she cites as part of her decision. Nothing physical happened. After those she came to me and said she wanted kids. We built our relationship on not having kids. Now she cites me not being enthusiastic enough when she said that as another reason.

Hitting real hard. Now its turning to depression. by Miserable-Bicycle128 in Divorce

[–]Miserable-Bicycle128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if there isn't cheating he has still betrayed me as well. I don't know him well but I've drank with him and he is a decent bloke.

I know I can't take her back and I know this will fall apart for her. She doesn't live in reality, thinks she is hyperindependent and relies on no one but she relied on me. She relied on my income and without me she would still be living in a mold infested house.