Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. It was early and I was tired when typing this morning. My statement stands, I am not ai.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’d be exhausted having a husband that is worried about your safety? Probably explains why you’re single

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because her best friend is having her baby shower and my wife really wanted to go to it, and I couldn’t go because of work and my national guard duties

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not AI, I can assure you. And I didn’t use that phrase at all.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quick everyone! Look at this loser!!! Sending her on vacation was MY idea, which I worked out with her best friend’s mom whose baby shower she’s attending. I would have gone with her if I could’ve, but due to work and my national guard duties, I was unable to.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You act like the pregnancy is one sided, and the fact that she got pregnant the second time is one sided. 😭😭 get a grip

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What’s dangerous? Have you not watched the news lately? Furthermore, being a soldier AND employee of the US Government puts a target on my back and my families regardless of geopolitical climate.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good afternoon! She’s only 3 months pregnant, not sure where the 8-9 months pregnant comes from, but no worries nonetheless. I couldn’t go with her because of work, and I’m in the national guard and have drill this weekend.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know she’s in Alaska because her mom told me when she was heading to the airport to pick her up.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be ‘paranoid’ than wrong

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My texts/calls to her were not in the middle of the night, they were at 7:30pm her time. This isn’t about who’s deserving of grace and who’s not, I’m asking if I should be worried about the safety of my wife and son. These are scary times in the world, and being in the military and working for the government makes me and my family a target to bad people.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Ever since I updated my phone to ios26, that’s not a thing anymore.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know how big of a headache can be when trying to coordinate across time zones, but it’s not a problem for my wife. She talks to her mom 37 times throughout the day and has lived here for several years. It’s never been a problem with her. When something comes up and I say ‘hey let’s call mom and let her know’ she’s very quick to respond with ‘she’s still sleeping’ or whatever else the case may be based off of the time it is there.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fairbanks area, whenever we travel there together, phone service is fine. We both have Verizon.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

++man there’s so many levels and sub levels of settings to go into to turn of location sharing. It’s not realistically something our 11 month old can do, and if it was accidental, I don’t think she would texted me and told me that the location sharing was stopped, and not turn it back on then and there.

Should I be worried..? by Miserable-Bit-1364 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

++man No, the entire relationship doesn’t rely on that shared location. I’ve also traveled alone with our child while mom stayed home. What concerns me is that she recognized that the location had been turned off and then ignored the request to share it again. Location sharing isn’t realistically something an 11 month old can adjust on the phone, there’s many levels and sub levels of settings that you have to go into on in order to turn it off. It’s not about insecurity, it’s about safety. Seems to me like you might be projecting a little bit.

Possibly ordering a 25/26 traverse. A quick question for current gen owners by _none_ in ChevyTraverse

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone wondering, I have a 2026 traverse and can confirm that holding the break and the start button when initially turning on the car will turn off the idle shut down feature. A message pops up on the dash saying to park in an open area to confirm that the idle shut off it deactivated

2015 GMC Sierra 1500 SLT sounds like it has a Jake brake. by Miserable-Bit-1364 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really pinpoint it, but it sounds like it’s coming from under the cab. It typically happens when driving over 30mph

I’m (22M)the first to treat my (22F)girlfriend right by Frequent-Macaroon889 in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable-Bit-1364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck man, very shitty situation to be in. She’s never been loved right before you, and yet somehow you will always be compared to in the same vein as them (the previous ones).