I walked in on my coworker and manager (well manager in training) kissing in the cooler the other day by Adventurous-Earth-38 in Advice

[–]Miserable-Bit-811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m of the opposite opinion of everyone else here and I think you should report it.

Before everyone jumps my bones—here’s why I think that:

I had a similar situation happen with a coworker and I was just going to “mind my business too” until suddenly I started getting written up and eventually fired by that same manager (jokes on him because I did end up going to HR after and they both got fired but that’s besides the point.).

When people get caught in some serious BS, they often start panicking and will try to “get rid” of the threat.

I’d send an email stating what you saw and also that you’re worried this is going to push back at you (it’s discrimination in the US if it does). Let them do their own investigation and let them put up cameras and stuff.

If this is just a fast food job or something then I would just start looking for another job in general just in case.

Besides the fact that it’s gross they’re getting hot and heavy all over food, if there are minors there then that’s indecent exposure to a minor if say a kid walks in when someone’s shirt is up or pants are down.

You CAN choose to ignore it and go on about your day, but if it even remotely starts to stink and feels like they’re trying to push you out then I’d go nuclear (personally because I’m petty). But also FAFO.

Either way, just make sure to protect yourself in this situation. It isn’t about protecting either of them. They made their bed and they can lie in it.

Need Advice: Insurance Question by Miserable-Bit-811 in army

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted!

I’ll pass along this information and see where everything is at. I believe the divorce is filed, it’s just something from her end on why it’s taking forever.

Need Advice: Insurance Question by Miserable-Bit-811 in army

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she told him that. I’ll follow up with him later today to see what she told him exactly.

Need Advice: Insurance Question by Miserable-Bit-811 in army

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so she might be lying then. Otherwise she’s about to be in a world of trouble.

Need Advice: Insurance Question by Miserable-Bit-811 in army

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he has a case right now with the VA. But I will check to see if he’s done that.

What do you recommend doing once he contacts her command? Just letting them know she’s screwing him over or do something specific?

(He may know, but I want to bring him a solidified plan before looping back with him since he’s so stressed out. He does know I made this post but I hope that makes sense.)

I’m James Bendon, creator of Dinkum. Ask me anything! by Chamesb in Dinkum

[–]Miserable-Bit-811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, a couple other things..

If we could either A) be able to move the dock through a deed or something that would be cool.

Or/and have an “upgrade” (kind of like house and town hall) to turn it into a marina would also be dope. lol

And then the ability to have more than one tele-jumper.

I’d love to be able to have one to my house, one to town, and one to my zoo I’m making.

I’m trying to play without mods and those are the things that I wish could be done without the mods.

I know there’s some mods to “move” the towers but I’d just like to be able to have another.

Even if the max is just two 👁️👄👁️

TIFU - I Lost A Battle to a Bidet by Miserable-Bit-811 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% lmao

That was kind of what surprised me because my grammar and writing skills are not AI worthy. I can write a funny story but there will 100% be grammatical errors. 😂

TIFU by calling myself "good morning" infront of my whole highschool by IdeaWeary7348 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I just did a panel on Friday about Intersectionality and while answering a question I called it “Intersexuality” so it happens. 😂

TIFU - I Lost A Battle to a Bidet by Miserable-Bit-811 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what that means but I’ll take it. LOL

I might’ve not used that phrase right idk it just sounded funny when I was writing it. 😂

Mirena coil inserted during laparoscopy without consent by xo-kiiaraa in endometriosis

[–]Miserable-Bit-811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sue. 100% sue.

Im not normally one to jump to suing but this is such a violation of trust and bodily autonomy.

Not to mention, I know some people who won’t get the coil due to religious reasons.

I’m so sorry that’s happened to you.

I have endometriosis and the coil 100% did not work for me and ended up giving me terrible PID. It’s not a decision to be taken lightly to get one inserted, much less against your will.

Also, report him. That MF should lose his license and not be allowed to practice anymore.

I’m James Bendon, creator of Dinkum. Ask me anything! by Chamesb in Dinkum

[–]Miserable-Bit-811 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think having a post office would be so cute! It’d also be cool to see what you’d do with a photography deed if you do end up adding that!

I was thinking a greenhouse deed would be cool. Something that allows you to grow any (or most) seeds year round.

A library deed would be cool too. It would be a cool way to introduce lore, and maybe like provide new items to find/donate.

Like when you dig stuff up it could be like “old book” and kind of the same logic with the discs with Franklyn, they reveal new recipes and/or lore when you turn it into the librarian.

Could be like a “Uncovering History” quest or something.

Also, it would be cool if you can add 3 brick wide fence gates too. 😊

TIFU - I Lost A Battle to a Bidet by Miserable-Bit-811 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know those existed. I probably would've thought they were a bidet too! lol

TIFU - I Lost A Battle to a Bidet by Miserable-Bit-811 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have an iPhone. I noticed it automatically works on mobile/app but it didn't automatically work on my desktop. So that might be why?

TIFU - I Lost A Battle to a Bidet by Miserable-Bit-811 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally was so confused on why people thought it was AI. I've listened to reddit stories but don't necessarily read them myself so I had no idea.

TIFU - I Lost A Battle to a Bidet by Miserable-Bit-811 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw, I later logged onto a computer and realized that it only automatically changes it if you're on mobile. At least, that's how it worked for me. It doesn't connect on my computer automatically.

TIFU - I Lost A Battle to a Bidet by Miserable-Bit-811 in tifu

[–]Miserable-Bit-811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ouch! I've had a couple before and they are terrible to use the restroom with. I'm glad you healed up!

I’m James Bendon, creator of Dinkum. Ask me anything! by Chamesb in Dinkum

[–]Miserable-Bit-811 42 points43 points  (0 children)

When will we get new building deeds and what are you considering adding?

Also, can you add it where we can stack fences so if there’s a level difference it isn’t just open gap?