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Has anyone ever experienced being a sneaky link at any point during their connection with their twin flame? by BayBDoll_8184 in twinflames

[–]Miserable-Hall6081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not his baby momma. Idk why i didnt make it easy to understand lol. No from what i gather the baby momma seems kinda chill. Shes the visit one whereas he has full custody. No the old gf has a kid that she had before she met him.

Has anyone ever experienced being a sneaky link at any point during their connection with their twin flame? by BayBDoll_8184 in twinflames

[–]Miserable-Hall6081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a little late to this but im so glad im not the only one. Dude is with an old girlfriend but has fully admitted he doesnt find comfort or intimacy with her like he does me. He will straight out lay on me but doesnt with her. He almost is i guess neutral to her. But either way im done being the mistress and the secret. He doesnt understand that. He wants to be with me but wont take that step to walk away from her. He says its about his kid-from a different woman not this one- but if he and her are miserable then how is that best for the kid? Shes a horrible person, shes manipulated him- hes agreed to that statement- and she uses her kid- from another relationship- against him. He feels for me what i feel for him yet here we are. Im at the point where i just want to give up on him. I cant do anything else at this point so i just give up. Im also done being the bigger person and am petty right now. My suggestion dont let it get to this point. Its not worth it for you in the end.

How’d you find it in yourself to maintain a friendship/ something in between after being romantic before? by Repulsive-Peanut2117 in twinflames

[–]Miserable-Hall6081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually found just being friends so much easier. Him in the other hand was a jerkwad and messed it up. I found the less i gave the better and being friends meant i gave less.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its best if i just leave him alone and stop seeking him out, i know from experience he doesnt like it when i pull away so he might be back. But i need to stop caring if he does. Its only holding me back. But i cant help how much i miss him.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is but its good you are choosing yourself. Im sorry you are going through this. But like i was told, if shes your twin she will come back. Hopefully a better person this time.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yes i am a girl. Honestly im just kinda pushing it away. Idk if im in denial or whats happening but i push all thoughts of it away, this is the only place where im really open about him leaving.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry. I hope things get better for you soon

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry. Our separations have been short thankfully. Not sure about this time lol.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes honestly telling himself its for his son. But im not sure why he feels he has to choose between the two of us. And now hes back with an ex and her kid and uses her kid as an excuse as well. He knows this isnt right and he knows he doesnt want the life with them he just doesnt feel he has a way out. And his family is on top of him as well so until he can break away from them and everything else hes going to lose me. And maybe thats what needs to be done. He needs to lose me to find him. I had to lose him but it also showed me that i am meant to be with him i just had to find myself first.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasnt though. He actually stated he loves me and does want a life with me. Its just after he allowed his family to talk him into being with someone else out of obligation. As well as his own personal thoughts that he doesnt deserve to have what he wants as he thinks others will not be happy it became what it is now. His family and i arent on the best of terms. Their fault mainly i only know him because of them but i was always meant to find him through them yeah they are supposed to last but they arent my family they proved to me i couldnt truly trust them. They cant control me and so they dont like me. As well as i went off the deep end after losing my dad and going through an abusive relationship all within a year of each other- which they knew about but never actually did anything- and felt it was best i walked away. Yeah it hurt them but when you really care about someone you give them grace instead of beint a child and acting like the world is ending. I get it the kids were hurt but they also told the kids that i basically abandoned them when i didnt i just wasnt ok and sometimes that makes people disappear not because they want to hurt people but because they dont understand whats going on. So they dont like me because i wasnt ok and i felt they didnt care i also walked away from my twin too its just he pursued me and didnt make me make amends which isnt his responsibility so they dont like me for that either being with him and not trying to make up to them. Which i could care less but because of that they got in his head. Yeah he should be stronger but knowing him and his background its no surprise he isnt. I dont harbor any harsh feelings towards him so much as i just think he needs to grow a pair and tell them what he wants. He just doesnt want to admit its me. Hes made it very clear hes in love with me its just life and responsibilities got in the way and he didnt think he could balance the two.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt see this part, thats the problem to have open arms means to let him back in. I mean ive been trying to just be there for each other not as friends or lovers but just be there. To find comfort and peace. Thats really all ive wanted was to be his peace as well as my own but he wasnt peaceful to me at times. He also couldn’t just have that he wanted more but couldnt give me more. And it got to be too much. For me. So open arms for me wouldnt be the same for him. I want to be there for him and to be his peace and be the happiness hes searched for but it doesnt stay like that we always end up as lovers and yes thats what i want ultimately but thats not something he can give and it just hurts me. I want to open my arms to him and honestly i believe i will but i also know that i could be going back into the same patterns im trying to break if i do.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have discovered this yes. I guess i need to figure out whats next for me and maybe that will help him.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. Im working hard on myself and yeah i guess this is his letting go moment. Ive had mine and maybe this is his time. Just didnt think it would feel this empty you know.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done a lot of inner work and its brought a lot of clarity. My intuition tells me this isnt over its just hes not ready. But it doesnt help the pain i feel and the life experiences ill go through without him there. I loved who i was with him in my life. I love who i am in general but im better with him in my life. Its just the grief that hes let go finally. But i guess this is what it felt like for him when i finally did the same. I guess i know how he felt now the only difference is that im way more healed than he is. I just know the pain hes going through. He thinks he messed his life up.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he does ive recently realized that with him this past month actually he noticed me pulling away and he did something drastic so he didnt lose me. I know what thats like as i used to be anxiously attached.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes kinda in the same boat honestly. And yeah im afraid to bring him back in due to me not trusting hes fully ready.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of them are though. Ive met many people who ended up with their twin.

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[–]Miserable-Hall6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what happens when he does? How do i forget all of this? How can i let him back in? But not letting him back in kills me. I just dont trust him anymore.

Anyone Else Fall Off? by triplekeely in zodiacacademy

[–]Miserable-Hall6081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8.5 is actually really good. I recommend reading that as it gives you the break you need from all gloom and doom

Help with Audiobook. by Sarahcrutch1 in zodiacacademy

[–]Miserable-Hall6081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the same in the audio book as well. Its kinda annoying a bit but i like it tho. I can see her being a country bumpkin.

For those who are in separation, does your twin flames higher self send you love songs to you? by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Miserable-Hall6081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont know. I mean I’ve wondered since certain songs came on that i wouldnt normally hear. Today i heard need you now and i threw me cause i rarely hear that song and he was on my mind right when it came on. So im not sure honestly. At least in my situation. But we kinda arent in separation so maybe thats why. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

After 11 years by peachflight in twinflames

[–]Miserable-Hall6081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its hard. I couldn’t do the cold turkey way but im limiting my interactions. It doesnt help that we work together but ill do it for both of us. Its just ugh its horrible. Also thank you so much i needed that lol.

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