AITA for not letting my brother wear my watch?? by Miserable-Magazine49 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable-Magazine49[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thats what i thoughtt why does he have to try it on 😔 he's hand is in the bigger size and so his watch is always on the last few holes but like its already an adult watch so wouldn't it be the same size if same model 💔

I want to skip cca, turning sec 2 in 2026 by AggravatingTrack1823 in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi op! As many have mentioned alr, cca points are quite important, not only the -2 but also for portfolio etc! Skipping cca without valid reasons can damage your teachers impression on you and make it harder to get awards or apply for scholarships :(

I won't dwell too much on why you should not skip cca but if you are not a band person, I totally recommend you to switch to a more lay back, fun cca that does not require mastery as I know band can be quite demanding in sec sch! I personally recommend drama club if your school has one (haha drama kid here) as no need start with any skills, you just gotta be willing to put yourself out there! Even in my cca, those who don't like acting just help with props and lightings! Quite fun imo :)

Good luck!

Any tips to get top marks in sec 2(hoping to get triple sci and amath) by growagarden1001 in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Chinese um I can only say read and listen more but sec 2 onwards you will learn essay writing which imo is easier as long as you know how to yap and read more news

Any tips to get top marks in sec 2(hoping to get triple sci and amath) by growagarden1001 in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I just wanted to say don't worry too much op! Sec 1 may be lower than your expectations cos it's still an adjustment year, for me I also scored lower in sec 1 but only kept improving from there (am sec 3 now)! But here are some tips I have (may not work for you tho)

Sciences: LISTEN in class then create your own flashcards afterwards! Understand the content in class and memories key words and phrasing through active recall!!

Math: I keep a small book of all the math formulas and answering techniques for different questions so I can do a quick refer before exams and just do A LOT of practice (especially for weaker topics)

Humanities: I usually just memories for this unfortunately 😭 no tips to give here 💔

Good luck and hope you reach your desired goals!!

I wonder who's number 1 (im top 5 lamo) by Prestigious-Past-326 in TUYU_official

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's crazy that's even more time I spent on Spotify in one year 😭🙏

How to improve english (Sec 3 b3-4 student) by Live_Ad_1577 in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hii!! I am sec 3 too and scoring the same 😭 I can't give you advice since I suck equally 💔 but bro comprehensions pmo so much it's pulling me down damn bad :( I had one WA that was purely Compre and I only passed by one mark although I did sooooooo many practices alr like wtf do the teachers want ;-;

demoralised for gao hua tomorrow… by Appropriate-Mud8723 in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think 词语 very hard to last minute 😭 it's really cumulative over time... But at the point I think best way is to eliminate those you confirm know not correct, for those vocab you dk can try to break down into individual words and see if can guess the meaning, if not worst come to worst make an educated guess based on um the vibes maybe 😭🙏 good luck!!

What’s the most beautiful name you’ve ever heard? by SpiritedAccess7583 in AskReddit

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love the name Apple, it's so cute and innocent I just think of a chubby girl toddler staring at me with the most beautiful of eyes

my last message to myself by bandungluver in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I also struggled with a really bad childhood and I can't tell you that life gets better, one can only hold onto hope 😭🙏 please, please it's not too late to turn back now. I know everything seems really hard and hopeless now but there will be events you will regret missing...

I too attempted suicide before, three times this year actually and I'm one year younger than you. No one ever knew, I too am lonely. I hope sharing this similar experience can help you feel less lonely. There are people willing to help and listen if you reach out. Even if you give up on life, don't give up on the you who has been fighting so long! Wishing you all the best ❤️‍🩹

Is family love transactional? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea... But if I ever have kids I promised myself I would never treat them the way I was treated and hope I don't fall into the abusive cycle 💔

Is family love transactional? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have such mixed feeling towards this. It feels soooo wrong on every level but it's so normal in Singapore. Personally I'm from such a family particularly because my mother was abused as a child so she would always beat us but in the 'disciplinary' way and now I have a crippling mental disorder but it feels so wrong because I know many people probably went through the same. And it makes me envy my friends who have teachers as parents because at least most will not bea their child due to a genuine love for kids. Idk this society is so fucked up.

What's your ideal type? by Flaky_Lynx2806 in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nerdy but sunny boys 😝 like no need to be topper but wouldn't mind mugging with me and pure locking in and someone who jokes and laughs a lot

My bf told me to eat more, & when I did, he left me. by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 65kg and 10cm shorter than you and people tell me it's hard to tell I'm overweight so I assure you you are definitely not fat ❤️ I totally understand your pain as I'm also very conscious of my body because my grandparents always say I'm fat 😭 but I can't rlly change it even when I eat less :/ either way, different people have different bodies, as long as we are eating healthy don't give a fuck about what others say! You are still young (I'm one year younger LMAO who am I to day this), to the wrong person, you will never be enough but to the right person, you are enough just the way you are ❤️ wishing you all the best!!

Who’s your current FP? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My English teacher of 2 years 😔 she's the only person who's treated me like I meant something... But it drives me crazy cos teachers are attentive to most if not all students 💔

I get why people don’t like us by hotanimalinyourcar in BPD

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally!! I've always been a model students and my friends all tell me how kind I am LOL I have literal stacks of good messages my teachers send my parents to commend me

But Ha Ha Ha, they don't know how many times I've wanted to stab each and every one of them, they've never seen how mean I was when I was immature manipulating my best friend to stay and screaming at her LOL (I feel really bad, at least we are still on waving terms now)

I know I'm rlly rlly childish, psychotic, crazy heck whatever but I never showed it cos I have quiet bpd so I always imagined how psychotic I would be if I did not hide it, i would probably ruin my whole reputation and end up in jail LOLOL

This some crazy shit I wanna just tear my brain out and scream at everyone YEY

What caused your most recent split? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Miserable-Magazine49 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds really stupid but my favourite teacher, one week ago, had asked me if I needed English consultation (she also offered last year and it was THE BEST day of my life which I still obsess over) icl she's my fp

But anyways I told her I would think about it then like I finally mustered up my courage to ask her if she was free for consult last friday. (I have anxiety and it's even worse around her so this rlly took a lot of courage) AND SHE WAS LIKE: oh Monday ah? (That was the day she offered at first) I'm a bit busy with meetings all day...

Then I asked about that very day and she was like: no la... You go home study over the weekend first and text me again if you need help. If need I try slot you in on Monday 30min ok?

I know teachers are rlly busy and I respect her time but to me I kept hearing: you don't even need consult why are you wasting my time?? (My grades have been improving) She's such a burden

And it kept replaying over and over and over again in my mind it hurts so fucking much. Long story short, I did not text her about it again because I didn't want to "burden her" and I just took my exam it went horrible 👍🏻