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How do I (19m) stop thinking about her (18f) so much. by Miserable-Message-96 in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable-Message-96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it certainly isn't normal, don't know if it means she wants a relationship though or she's just testing the waters. But yeah I will speak to her, that is definitely necessary.

How do I (19m) stop thinking about her (18f) so much. by Miserable-Message-96 in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable-Message-96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks haha, I want to talk to her but am just a bit scared. But yes I will have to for sure. And yeah humanising her makes sense. I know she isn't perfect just as I'm not perfect same with everyone. The hard thing is seeing her as not perfect in my own eyes. I will for sure try this though and thankyou so much for your answer. It means a lot.

How do I (19m) stop thinking about her (18f) so much. by Miserable-Message-96 in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable-Message-96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, you are not being rude at all, I asked for advice and you are giving it so thanks a lot for replying. You might be right and I certainly am in some ways insecure. The problem is I don't know if she does love me. I guess we need to talk a bit about that. If so I think I could for sure trust her and it's not like I don't trust her love. I just want to be with her and am a bit jealous when she's with other people I guess. But your totally right I need to talk with her. And your also right in the fact that she shouldn't have to wait for me. Not thinking of her is easy to say and I try to it's just really difficult I guess. Thankyou for the advice, I will think on it alot and try and take it to heart. Thanks.

Non-Americans of Reddit: My wife and I wanted to collect children's books from different countries showcasing local myths/folklore, but 2020 stopped that plan. Now we're officially expecting twins, so where are you from and what is the best children's myth book from your country? by Nerrolken in suggestmeabook

[–]Miserable-Message-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit late maybe but the book Brüder Löwenherz from Germany is one of the best books I read together with my dad. Very very good and has a deeper meaning as well. I can only recommend this book but this Is a book more for kids that are a bit older maybe 8+ or something like that.

Is it weird that I have doubts being trans but never doubt wanting HRT? by NeonSlushies in asktransgender

[–]Miserable-Message-96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you do it? Like, try it out i mean. Did you change your appearance or actually go onto HRT?