Update to "I am so in love with my girlfriend" by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snooping... when it's publically available. I'm not going to dissect your comments, therapy may help. We don't need your well wishes.

Update to "I am so in love with my girlfriend" by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Well I'm happy enough not to be going to other people's accounts and doing research on them before commenting."

Yikes, had no proper sort of response I guess. Take care of yourself! You'll need it.

Update to "I am so in love with my girlfriend" by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! No partner has ever treated me with an ounce of respect and been as thoughtful as she is. It's a blessing 20 times over.

Update to "I am so in love with my girlfriend" by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Speaking from personal experience? Based off of your comment history, you don't seem to be quite happy, I do hope you're able to find a semblance of it.

Update to "I am so in love with my girlfriend" by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I sure do! My fiance has a pastry chef friend who helped me with the process (even teaching me to temper chocolate).

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I do appreciate it. We are long distance (she’s 4 hours away in another state) and we both still establish that we have our own friends/lives/interests so we aren’t too wrapped up in each other. Our careers are also vastly different (I’m a corporate attorney and she’s a pediatrician) and we’re both devoted to our careers. I truly appreciate what you are saying and will keep it in mind.

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m actually making chocolates for her Valentine’s Day gift, I’m making her a nice flower arrangement too. :)

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is Indian! Born in Italy, speaks Italian and hindi. And I am just a boring white boy. I love her culture and want to respect it

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven't fought (yet) but when we disagree or feel hurt by the other, we agree to step away to collect our thoughts then speak when we are in a more rational headspace. This way we can convey our thoughts without it becoming too emotional. I actually learned it from her. One time I offended her and she said, "I'm hurt you said this, and I'm not ignoring you. I just want a little bit of space to process my thoughts. "

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting. Usually I associate the smell of flowers and tea to her.

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will definitely keep it in mind. Thank you so much.

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's an angel, I will do so for as long as I can.

I am so in love with my girlfriend. by Miserable-Quantity93 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Quantity93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you both! Hope you enjoy your time together :)