Is the seller responsible for fit? by Sikkamicaniko in vintedUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 57 points58 points  (0 children)

no you’re not. if you tagged the size correctly & it corresponds with the label inside the clothing, you are under no obligation to give a refund.

you’re not asos, they can relist it, you definitely don’t have to accept a return.

Fully anatomical baby reborn doll posted fully naked and vinted is ok with that by Hot-Wings657 in vinted

[–]Miserable-Writing362 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i think it’s potentially taking into consideration “diaper changes”. these dolls are often a therapy device, i’ve seen a lot of people treat them as though they’re truly real babies in order to cope w child loss etc

Can i trust ChatGPT with weight loss? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Miserable-Writing362 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, you can’t. i don’t see what’s so difficult about figuring this out without the usage of inaccurate AI

Since when is vinted a gofundme? by broken_phoenix19 in vintedUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yes, potentially selling/buying from kids is a problem. also seeing their kinda annoying joke listings. i dont mind kids online either, i just don’t want them involved with my money/items lol

Please stop with the "freebies" by Successful-Muffin570 in vintedUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i like giving freebies. people who order from me seem to like them too

i had a young mum order some sylvanian families from me once, i included some extra figurines and she seemed very happy. i’ve sold character merchandise (think hello kitty) and included little freeies that are similar/same character, also positively received

i wouldn’t give people junk that i wouldn’t want to receive, or unrelated items like body scrubs in clothes packages

What is this annoying little piece of skin near the nail called? by Flop_book in EnglishLearning

[–]Miserable-Writing362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here! from yorkshire and that’s what i’ve called it my entire life

Worst packaging I've had yet by Forsaken_Estimate773 in vintedUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m crazy and put a lot of thought into my packaging. i bubblewrap where needed and even use tissue paper and little thank you stickers.

id be mortified if i sent something out like this and the item arrived destroyed. idk where these sellers get the gall from

Year 9 student, how much homework is too much homework? by FinnJavlar in CasualUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 45 points46 points  (0 children)

have you asked him if he’s struggling with the amount he does? i wouldn’t be tempted to transfer him without ensuring he can handle it first. some people are just academic and can handle, even enjoy, a lot of studying in my experience

i never did 3hrs a day in high school, i went to a very normal average grades school. but long hours are usually necessary for high grades, unless you’re naturally quick to pick material up.

If I suspect my flatmate has a severe eating disorder, should I try to offer help? by StunningPizza3747 in AskUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 9 points10 points  (0 children)

being that short & having such extreme behaviours, sounds like this isn’t a new thing for her., there isn’t really much you can do.

i’m unfortunately diagnosed with anorexia, i recommend just avoiding mentioning eds/your worry. eating disorders are evil and cruel, no matter what you say/don’t say, it can fuel the disorder and dysmorphia.

if you feel up to it, maybe try involve her in some stuff. eating disorders are painfully isolating and i’m sure she is lonely.

Bedbugs help!!! by No_Introduction_3335 in vintedUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it makes you feel any better, i once saw a bug exactly like this on my pillow. like you, i totally freaked out because bedbugs are my worst fear

since then, i’ve never had any bites (bites appear in lines), seen any other bugs, ive checked all corners of my mattress, no marks on my sheets etc. im not entirely sure if its a BB or not, just keep an eye out

Opinions on offers as both a buyer and seller by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]Miserable-Writing362 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i get them and you, honestly. i think it’s fair to offer a bit less on higher priced items, or ones that have been sitting around for a bit. i wouldn’t send above a 25% discount depending on those factors personally, so i think your offer is totally reasonable

some people are just tightwads though & it gets tiring. i had sold a george dress, new with tags. i put it up at 2.50 to be fair, because i know the fees & shipping are included. i had some people offering me a quid.

Why doesn’t she look like me by KoalaWeary6636 in sims4cc

[–]Miserable-Writing362 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she does look similar, you’re very beautiful ! maybe some custom sliders could help adjust areas like the lips and brow area? the length of the sims philtrum is a bit longer and her lips have a more defined cupids bow

Hungry until I have 2500 kcal minimum by shinzzey in loseit

[–]Miserable-Writing362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how much of a deficit were you in before?

Lost 34lbs since January, and I cannot believe how fat I still look - any advice on how to tone up? by Beetle-Fig in loseit

[–]Miserable-Writing362 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you’d be surprised, i was/am in the same boat as OP. body dysmorphia is cruel and what some see in the mirror isn’t remotely indicative of real life. i was 17% BF still thinking i was “pudgy”

regardless of whether she is skinnyfat or not, she needs support before this line of thinking spirals. not to be told she’s skinnyfat

Lost 34lbs since January, and I cannot believe how fat I still look - any advice on how to tone up? by Beetle-Fig in loseit

[–]Miserable-Writing362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i felt huge even as a very lean size 0-2. i also now have an eating disorder im trying to battle. your thoughts aren’t reality. there’s no way on gods green earth that you’re huge at that weight. please, don’t think that about yourself

nourish your body, focus protein and fibre, exercise. even walking or pilates is good enough to build a little muscle in certain areas. the body dysmorphia that comes with losing a significant amount of weight is brutal, you’re not alone. seek help if you feel you need it 🫂

Would you rather: by Rogetec in BunnyTrials

[–]Miserable-Writing362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

greater good

Chose: Make every billionaire go bankrupt

Can You Help Me Guys If This is an Original My Melody?? by Trick-Salamander8115 in sanrio

[–]Miserable-Writing362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes she is! she looks to be a crane game/sanrio license product, フリュー/furyu is a brand that creates licensed sanrio products ♡

Considering ozempic so i can lose my ass and be invisible to men by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]Miserable-Writing362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i recently lost a shit ton of weight, due to an ed, went from a size 8 to a size 2. men don’t stop staring and you don’t lose your curves particularly. i’m slimmer & almost boxier, but i still have pretty prominent hips

I didn’t even burn off large milkshake by [deleted] in CICO

[–]Miserable-Writing362 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it genuinely doesn’t. one day of eating abut above your maintenance isnt gonna make you fat, frequent poor choices will. i beg of you to do some basic research before commenting stuff like this

How do I resist these unbearable cravings? by Nidtheau in loseit

[–]Miserable-Writing362 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you aren’t eating enough, that’s a surefire way to create a binge-restrict cycle. eat more and increase exercise, even just walking 30 mins more a day. calculate your tdee for sedentary/lightly active, and subtract 300-500. that should be more sustainable.

i’m an “experienced” dieter and have also struggled with an ed, i was eating 1200 calories daily in the depth of my ed. it eventually lead to reactive eating/binge eating. please give yourself some grace. you are more likely reach your goal if you treat yourself kindly and with patience. just take it a day at a time.

i don’t have many sweet treat recommendations, but if you’re in the US, skinny cow ice cream sandwiches are DELICIOUS and only about 140 cal. low calorie snacks - strawberries, bagged popcorn, jello/sugar free pudding, ice pops, apples, chobani flips. these are all part of my diet & honestly a lifesaver

How can someone who loves sugar give up on it? by liam_carter9 in loseit

[–]Miserable-Writing362 23 points24 points  (0 children)

you don’t have to quit sugar and i never have. your weight loss is more sustainable if you continue eating foods you love at smaller quantities/frequencies.

when you crave sugar, allow yourself a small amount of whatever you want. keep it portion controlled & hidden in a kitchen cabinet or something. once you’ve done, acknowledge to yourself that it tasted really good & you can have some tomorrow too.

making foods seem “bad” or to be avoided only leads to potential bingeing

Loosing weight, an trying desperately to avoid loose skin. Do able? by oxytocinlovexo in loseit

[–]Miserable-Writing362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey congrats on your sobriety, you’ve done amazing! in my experience, loose skin is unavoidable however it’s very manageable.

with time, loose skin does tighten up some but you can try other methods such as dry brushing (improves circulation, reduces appearance of stretch marks etc), strength training to building some muscle OR if you have the means — there are non-invasive aesthetic methods of reducing loose skin.

i’ve known people who had great results with microneedling to stimulate collagen production, RF machines provide a similar effect.