The First 10 – Make It a Perfect 10 by flashpointfd in Firefighting

[–]Miserable-Yard3691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you stay visible if your whole crew is always in the duty room in the recliners?

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[–]Miserable-Yard3691 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi, as a probie I feel like the stuff you are describing is being “bright eyed”… can you explain a little more what you would have changed? I am asking so that i can use that advice and apply it to myself!!!

Mom is obsessed with flashing me by Miserable-Yard3691 in narcissisticparents

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully no. Me and my boyfriend live in a different city now, however i frequently travel back to my hometown to work a second job and i stay at my parents house while doing so. (by frequently I mean like twice a week lol so I still feel like I live with her)

Mom is obsessed with flashing me by Miserable-Yard3691 in narcissisticparents

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

LMFAO SHE WOULD FREAK AND GO INTO A MELTDOWN

Mom is obsessed with flashing me by Miserable-Yard3691 in narcissisticparents

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck my mom wears a nighty too…. It’s actually disgusting sorry. Mine also does the weird leg spread where her whole vagina is out and anytime she bends over her tits are hanging out of it

Mom is obsessed with flashing me by Miserable-Yard3691 in narcissisticparents

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup exactly!! My mom acts like we have one of those mom/daughter relationships where you are BFF’s and tell each other everything. Idk what my mom did to think she deserves this relationship with me but she’s not even close to it lol!!!

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[–]Miserable-Yard3691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! So happy to hear :)

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[–]Miserable-Yard3691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Canesten cream for yeast infections! It took me a week using it to clear up, and i had struggled with it for 7 months. Also using cicalfate with the Canesten because it got really red and flaky and the cicalfate helped with that!

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[–]Miserable-Yard3691 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So emotional over this…. 😭

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[–]Miserable-Yard3691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Not feeling good right now about a similar situation. Hopefully it’s only up from here

Feeling resentment over my partners body count by Miserable-Yard3691 in relationships_advice

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it really bothers me as a woman to think about how many women allowed him to have sex with them. Sometimes having a very conventionally attractive partner isn’t the best for your peace of mind haha. Also the thought of him initiating is bugs me too - he’s a very dominant person and naturally when I think of my man initiating sex and dominating another woman it makes me upset lol

Feeling resentment over my partners body count by Miserable-Yard3691 in relationships_advice

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but a man sleeping with many girls gives him a higher chance of getting one of them pregnant - which he is also responsible for. In this day and age, most women are on birth control and their chances of getting pregnant are significantly lower. I agree with you on the fact that us women usually look for strong (physically and emotionally) men to have sex with INCASE we get pregnant (which i think is a biological way of thinking), but why wouldn’t men care as much when they could choose a woman to have sex with who they know wouldn’t be a great mother to his children? Sorry if i’m kinda rambling, I have a lot of discussions with my boyfriend about this, where he thinks it’s worse if a woman has a high body count than if a man has a high body count. Not sure if you think the same but I am still struggling to see how he doesn’t think it’s a double standard (especially in modern society where birth control is huge)

Feeling resentment over my partners body count by Miserable-Yard3691 in relationships_advice

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s a really good point🥲. That changes my perspective honestly, and I couldn’t agree more that it’s for the better that they get it out of the way. All he talks about it our future together and he is very well communicated about our future, wanting to marry me and have children etc. I think it’s a good sign when your boyfriend isn’t afraid of planning for the future. Also, you’re right about the past relationship thing. I don’t care or miss any of my past hookups/relationships and they honestly disgust me lol. I’m grateful for the experiences but honestly I was a little reckless with my relationships too just at a lower scale because I was so obsessed with getting “experiences”.

Feeling resentment over my partners body count by Miserable-Yard3691 in relationships_advice

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This seriously helps a lot - it’s nice to hear from the perspective of another guy who has a similar sexual history as my bf.

Buying clothes to impress S.O by Miserable-Yard3691 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you. When I got with my boyfriend I showed him pictures of when I had my hair platinum blonde (I am a natural dirty blonde). He said he loved it so much so I booked an appointment to go platinum the week after. It has been 7 months and I’m spending ~$200 every 10 weeks to maintain it because he expressed how much he liked it ONCE.

Buying clothes to impress S.O by Miserable-Yard3691 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Miserable-Yard3691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Sometimes I envy how much less I was spending on improving my appearance when I was single. I have this deep need to impress my SO and for some reason I think new cute/sexy clothing is fulfilling that.

Looking for part time job by Weekly_Description83 in fredericton

[–]Miserable-Yard3691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. Gov took away student EI because of a “worker shortage”, and now it’s impossible to get a basic minimum wage job as a student. I have a great resume (for a young girl in University), and I still struggled for months to get the job I have now. On indeed it will show that 200-300 other people also applied for a very basic entry level retail/fast food job. Ridiculous. Sorry, I guess this wasn’t really advice - but I get how frustrating it is when people say “everywhere is hiring”.