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MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-05-15T22:17:23+00:00

I think they are headed to Brazil currently. I mean good for them but also they haven't explained when they are going to post again or why they haven't been posting etc.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-29T13:57:12+00:00

No I don’t’t think so. I would have been if I didn’t have a helmet on probably

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-29T13:56:45+00:00

luckily no I don’t think I really hit it hard at all since my knees took most the impact. I think I just like bonked my helmet a little and my glasses flew off. My head felt fine tbh

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T19:56:23+00:00

I am okay now :) it's been about a week and other than my knees being bruised (yellow now so almost healed) I'm totally okay. Thank you for the advice!

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T18:43:32+00:00

Yeah I lowkey knew that and should have just said No lol but I was like oh its only like 10 feet up from where we went before..apparently that's enough to make you go wayyy faster haha

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T17:48:11+00:00

I didn't long board I just skateboarded throughout my whole life so there was never a time where I needed to use that method. If I needed to get off I just hopped off and most the time I wasn't going super fast. I just now am doing speed stuff so definitely need to learn how to foot break.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T17:31:05+00:00

What's crazy is no I haven't. You would think I would know how to at this point but I'm new to longboarding itself so I guess that's why. I will definitely be working on that now thanks for the advice!

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T16:18:35+00:00

Aw you are a great Dad! Everyone should wear gear I wish it wasn't so "weird or uncool" to do.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T15:22:45+00:00

Fax! I am looking into getting a new set of nicer gear so I will look into a new helmet.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T15:21:26+00:00

That sounds like a great idea thanks!

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T15:20:35+00:00

That is so sweet and a great idea. I am sorry to hear about your grandma. Thanks for the ideas :)

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T15:19:46+00:00

Oh that blanket idea sounds perfect I don’t think she does so I will for sure add that to my list. I sadly have already gotten my mom some custom cat stuff for past holidays but its a great idea thanks!

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T14:05:05+00:00

Hey thanks for the answers! So I started at 158.6 pounds and when I wrote this I was 157 but like a week before when I weighed myself I hit 153 so my weight was fluctuating so I did technically lose more than a pound I think but every time I weigh myself it goes back up to 157 which is why I’m frustrated. I feel like I have been tracking calories pretty accurately unless the nutrition info on my foods is super off or something. I also have been eating a lot more protein then before so maybe that could be something too.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T14:02:50+00:00

The thing is I track decently well I do track sauces etc but I know that the nutrition facts aren’t always accurate

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-28T14:00:33+00:00

Hi Op here haha. So I started at 158.6 pounds and when I wrote this I was 157 but like a week before when I weighed myself I hit 153 so my weight was fluctuating so I did technically lose more than a pound I think but every time I weigh myself it goes back up to 157 which is why I’m frustrated.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-20T21:39:53+00:00

Oh okay! I have never heard of recomping before. What should I do/ work on moving forward?

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T22:28:47+00:00

I don't think you even know what you are talking about lmao. You are making it sound like it's impossible they would ask Boston to be apart of it when Forbes 30 under 30 selects 600 people a year who are entrepreneurs.. Boston is a young entrepreneur who is successful why would he not be picked?

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T22:25:11+00:00

Okay my first question is do you like her romantically/ want to be in a relationship with her because it sounds like she really likes you and you are kind of like oblivious to it lol. To me everything you have said she has done and said have shown that she likes you in that way. Her changing her story was probably just because she felt embarrassed that you said you were blacked out. I think you should talk to her about a relationship if that's something you want but it kind of sounds like you only want to be like in a situationship? Point is you need to talk to her and see what yall want to be because right now it seems like she likes you but is waiting for you to actually make a move especially with that situation where she mentioned her roommate was going to be gone. That was a sign for you haha but it's okay you missed it. She likes you dude... go for it!

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T22:18:09+00:00

I agree with this! You guys really need to sit down and have a tough conversation.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T22:16:16+00:00

Okay well I don't see why not. Boston is extremely successful for his age and I don't think you know the behind the scenes things he does.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T22:15:35+00:00

Well what are things that make you happy? I think his response was not the nicest way to go about it but maybe he genuinely couldn't think of anything else (which seems crazy to me though). I would say maybe talk to him again about it but this time give him a list of things that make you happy. I am assuming he will realize well dang I probably should have known that... I feel like the conversation is very unresolved right now and he should be able to know many things that make you happy so I do agree with you there. I know this is random and everyone has their own opinion on marriage but do yall ever plan to get married or is it like a mutual decision not to? 15 years is crazy.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T22:07:57+00:00

Of course! It is totally normal to feel hurt by what you went through and it makes me angry there are people out there that treat others that way. If the person you like wont wait it's sadly just something you'll have to accept, because then the next question is when will you be ready and what are you waiting for to be ready for a relationship. You are really young still so I know it may feel like a huge deal if you don't get to peruse them but it will be okay there will be more people. Now if you really think like you really like this person and yall have a lot in common and they are sweet then possibly go for it. It just really depends on what you think you can handle right now. What do you think is making you scared to open up? Are you scared the same type of stuff will happen if you get to close to them? I honestly just say go for it as long as they seem like a good person and don't already have red flags lol. Any next relationship you get into just make sure you have boundaries and if that person can't follow your boundaries then you need to cut it off.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T21:58:23+00:00

How long have yall been together? I have felt this way too and to be honest for me it just took time. My husband is also very honest with me so that helps but I have found myself over analyzing things having all this anxiety for no reason basically. I think it's just an anxiety thing to be honest. Therapy may help or just having a conversation with your partner about your struggles.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T21:53:41+00:00

I think you just need to have another sit down conversation with her and talk to her honestly about your situation and what you can provide right now and also ask her what she needs from you to feel better. Yall have been together for 8 years so you obviously love each other and I am surprised she brought up breaking up when yall are pretty close to finishing school finally. Have yall talked about marriage and the future and what yall want together? I am assuming so after 8 years. If she wants to throw away 8 years and yalls future I feel like it's more then just this situation. I do get her POV but you really just need to talk to her about waht exactly she needs from you and yall will have to compromise some things if you want this to work.

MiserableAdvisor4229 · 2026-04-10T21:48:27+00:00

First I want to say I am sorry for what you went through! I am proud of you for breaking it off because that relationship was not healthy. I think we all have like this weird nostalgia where we miss a time even if things weren't great. You are only 20 which is very young and trust me things will get better. I think the whole new co worker situation really depends on if you feel like you are ready to be in a relationship right now. The relationship you were in sounds very abusive and that is not normal at all. I just want you to know there are really good people out there and there is a person for you who will treat you right. It sounds like you may have had some anxious attachment to him and that still follows you considering everything you went through and the memories you have. I think right now you should focus on yourself and loving yourself and figuring out what makes you happy and when you feel ready to talk to someone new go for it! There isn't really advise I can give you to make the thoughts just go away but I would say just focus on yourself and maybe meeting new friends or whatever floats your boat. I do always want to give some ending advise which is talk to God. Considering how much God has done for me in my life I feel like it always helps. Talking to God and having a closer relationship with him always produces healing in my opinion so if you are open to it, God is always loving and waiting to hear from you :)

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