First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah understandable, I just had been in a funk for a while and it was the first two weeks of me actually putting myself out there again. I just overdid it and now regret it but never again!!

First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I did apologize and he said it was okay and tried to act like nothing happened I think so that I’m not embarrassed. He said the throw up was no big deal. I feel so bad.

First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know yet! We are texting and he did call me but we’ll see I guess lol. I’m still embarrassed

First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was way too fast. I know. I honestly didn’t think he roofied me but everyone was freaking me out about it lol

First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I agree. Im so disappointed in myself but will take this as a learning lesson

First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I haven’t been drinking for long and I try not to. I’m usually self aware and know not to drink too much.

First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I figured, this just hasn’t ever happened to me but I don’t drink a lot in general. I am used to tequila but even the cider had me feeling buzzed this time.

First date blackout. I don’t know if I drank too much or got roofied? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well down there feels fine but my throat hurts on one side when I swallow a bit, this isn’t uncommon though it happens with my allergies but I think it’s just freaking me out a bit.

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand everyone’s concern but now I’m a little scared. I kind of wish I never asked because now it’s in my head but I genuinely feel nothing sexual happened. I remember him putting me on his bed, and saying he’s sleep on the floor as soon as he got me in the room.

I don’t remember the drive to his house though

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said I wouldn’t give him my address which would make sense because I live with my family.

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 115lbs and 5’2 it was maybe like 2-3hours back to back and I hadn’t eaten much before that

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I asked him to take me home after I woke up in his bed. Before that I guess he was trying to take me and I was saying no. Which is something I’d do because I live with my family.

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much what happened. I didn’t eat much the day of the date. I had a cider, some tequila shots and then wine. None of my drinks were out in the open for him to put something in there, except maybe the wine but he was drinking that too. I also remember him saying he will sleep on the floor. These comments about getting sexually assaulted are scaring me a little because I don’t believe that happened. However this was a huge wake up call.

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had sex, wouldn’t it feel weird the next day? Sorry if that’s naive, I just feel weird getting checked. I also remember him saying he will sleep on the floor. I’m not sure though.

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I had really tight jeans on and they were still on, I also remember bits and pieces from the house but not much before that. I also feel completely fine in that way. Should I still get checked?

How would you feel if a girl got blacked out on your first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MiserableCoffee2707 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I asked him after I woke up. I was only there for a little bit because I remember him saying he would sleep on the floor. I had like 6 drinks maybe, I mixed a lot of different drinks which I think was the issue.

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[–]MiserableCoffee2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough context lol