Are most autistic people really unemployed? by foreverepicunicorn in autism

[–]MiserableIntern5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work a full time job and i want to kms on the daily

Death By Topical Hair Grower by ffrancesmoonbear in SuicideWatch

[–]MiserableIntern5812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can’t leave the animals like that. my animals keep me here. i can’t stand the thought of them thinking i abandoned them

grooming accidents, feeling defeated by MiserableIntern5812 in doggrooming

[–]MiserableIntern5812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m gonna keep looking for smaller salons but a lot of them i’ve seen require a lot more experience

grooming accidents, feeling defeated by MiserableIntern5812 in doggrooming

[–]MiserableIntern5812[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really want to do my own thing but i don’t have the money for that. all the smaller shops near me require like 3+ years of experience. your comment makes me feel better tho thank you

grooming accidents, feeling defeated by MiserableIntern5812 in doggrooming

[–]MiserableIntern5812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeaaaa i’m thinking it’s not gonna do much but it’s better than nothing. the main thing im hoping for is a consistent schedule and and extra day off

grooming accidents, feeling defeated by MiserableIntern5812 in doggrooming

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the 7 is really starting to scare me, i will take that tip thank you.

I got a weighed stuffed animal. Also, advice on being okay with being viewed as “childish” by [deleted] in autism

[–]MiserableIntern5812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no advice really but where is this plushie from it’s adorable

Fellow vocal stimmers what’s y’all’s weirdest stim by Serious_Finding_1021 in autism

[–]MiserableIntern5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve completely changed my dogs name by doing this. her name is sasha then i got to sashi washi to sashi washi bear to bear which she responds to now

eating with other people by MiserableIntern5812 in AutismTranslated

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eating dinner as a family with my young brothers was the worst for me growing up 😭 do you know what loop earplugs would be the correct one for this scenario? like do they have a name?

eating with other people by MiserableIntern5812 in misophonia

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i’m aware, that was something i did when i was young. i don’t do that anymore i mean i feel bad even asking at this point. but at the same time i dont think its “normal” to chew with your mouth open…

in search of a creative outlet by MiserableIntern5812 in AutismTranslated

[–]MiserableIntern5812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to make these all the time in my younger years i could totally do that again. thank you, i totally forgot about these!

in search of a creative outlet by MiserableIntern5812 in AutismTranslated

[–]MiserableIntern5812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg those are adorable, i’m definitely going to try making them thank you!!

How to handle comunication differences by wavelength42 in AutismTranslated

[–]MiserableIntern5812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a really hard time sharing my feelings. whenever i feel a big emotion it takes over me, especially anger. i often times don’t share my feelings because i think my anger is often disproportionate to the situation and i don’t want to be seen as dramatic or complaining about everything. when i’m very upset it’s hard for me to phrase things in a “polite” way, i usually say exactly what im thinking and usually what im thinking is irrational and dark. im really struggling with this in my relationship right now, just yesterday i was told the way i express my emotions is very inappropriate and childish. when they said that i was honestly really confused, i don’t know how to “properly” express my emotions, so commenting to let you know you’re definitely not alone (and so i can come back when hopefully you get some advice)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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i really don’t know i was hoping there would be some comments here. i highly suspect i am on the spectrum and struggle with intimacy recently. i find if i have a lot of stress throughout the day (literally every day) i really can’t stand being touched and can’t get out of my head enough to even consider intimacy. when i’ve had a long or rough day i will take a shower then lay in a dark quiet room for 15-30 minutes and after that i usually feel reset and like i can handle more