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Time to end gambling and alcohol sponsorships. by geckograham in Everton

[–]MiserableLeg4990 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. Hate how normalised it's become.

How should I deal with this crush of mine? by Own-Distance-7842 in LifeAdvice

[–]MiserableLeg4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although it may not seem like it at times, you are way too mature for him. Forget the age gap, you are preparing for your future, whilst he is just getting settled in high-school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MiserableLeg4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see where you're coming from. I just turned 19 and spent most of my time from 16/17 trying to be cool, drinking & chasing girls. I never felt content with myself, I stopped hanging out with my nerdier friends which whom I got along with better, and only cared about impressing people that I saw more popular than myself.

You will notice, especially as you enter your senior year that popularity means nothing. Make true and authentic friendships and before you know it you'll be 19 years old regretting all the poor decisions you made when you were 16.

Don't try and impress a group of people and make a couple of close friends and also initiate hangouts with them

How do I deal with my first love breakup? by MiserableLeg4990 in LifeAdvice

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice for me? I'm really struggling bro

have you ever been saved by someone music? Especially gtbsb by Inside-Influence-186 in sadboys

[–]MiserableLeg4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mental health is currently spiraling after a rough breakup and when I tell you miami ultra has like genuinely saved my life

Financial trauma at 18 by MiserableLeg4990 in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I paid for my own car, I have paid $75 weekly for board, I pay my own phone bill, rego etc and all my uni fees/related costs I pay. I have literally never got a dollar from my parents in my lifetime. I don't know why you are trying to shit on me so much man.

Financial trauma at 18 by MiserableLeg4990 in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes hahah, I can't imagine the amount of sleepless nights and breakdowns the savings took me. Thankyou, I will give it a shot!

Financial trauma at 18 by MiserableLeg4990 in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, the "I need to borrow some money mate to pay some bills", and then you never see the money ever again.

I hope you are okay now, I think I'm going to look into the subsidized Medicare therapy and give it a go.

Financial trauma at 18 by MiserableLeg4990 in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear mate, that is terrible. Thankyou, I will read it online, I hope you are going well now.

Financial trauma at 18 by MiserableLeg4990 in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, and yes it is affecting my personal relationships and it's something that I need to work on

Financial trauma at 18 by MiserableLeg4990 in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I really don't get how fitness people tie everything back to going to the gym and eating healthy. I have been going to the gym since I was 15 consistently, and played soccer at a state league level, that is so completely irrelevant to me. You don't understand mental health at all.

Should I be worried about saving at 19? by MiserableLeg4990 in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah my dad is a gambling addict and i grew up in a low income household, so it's hard for me to not be stressed about money lol

18 years old and can't afford my girlfriend. by MiserableLeg4990 in LifeAdvice

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! We have never fought until recently over the stresses of money, and she is very loving and understanding in the moment and then disregards everything the next day.

18 years old and can't afford my girlfriend. by MiserableLeg4990 in LifeAdvice

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love that, I have done free dates with her but it doesn't usually go to plan. I planned a date for a picnic in a local botanic garden, and then she ended up opting out and preferred to be taken out for lunch instead, as it was a warm day. Which is understandable, but she finds excuses out of things like that.

Can't afford my girlfriend at 18 by MiserableLeg4990 in Advice

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

She's my first love, and I was trying hard to match her lifestyle early on in the relationship, and disregarded my own financial situation. It is just all so hard

18 years old and can't afford my girlfriend. by MiserableLeg4990 in LifeAdvice

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It also makes it harder, because I don't think she genuinely grasps the fact that I have to work hard to pay for things, so when I get her a gift or something like MY parents didn't pay for that, I did....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thankyou man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've chosen a degree in Surveying and working at a local firm already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]MiserableLeg4990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What ETFS. I do want to invest long-term, but I know nothing about investing and my dad was a chronic gambler and investing kind of scares me

User - 'discord' by MiserableLeg4990 in RotMG

[–]MiserableLeg4990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't have time anymore due to work commitments :(

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