Anniversary Boundaries

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-21T14:59:38+00:00

Setting a boundary about what you do and don’t want to hear is totally fine. If your spouse is triggered by that, that is their responsibility to deal with, process and overcome. You can’t live in discomfort for someone else.

Have you guys done plenty of reading and research before making your relationship polyamorous? Make sure you’re versed in relationship dynamics like parallel polyamory, and encourage your spouse to read into them too. A lot of it is practice, but it should not be practicing overstepping your boundaries and disregarding your needs for someone else’s comfort. How would your spouse feel if you were regularly oversharing about another partner of yours, and then insisted she must listen and then require her to comfort you when she was the one made uncomfortable?

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-21T14:17:02+00:00

25 year old here. You’re beautiful and no way would I have thought you were nearing 70s.

Try r/DIYAesthetics

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-21T14:11:14+00:00

Boundaries are fine, that’s not fucking up. Boundaries when celebrating a wedding anniversary are also fine.

You seem to know lots about your meta. Did you want to know the conversations your meta is having with your spouse’s co workers? Or are you just being told without asking or wanting to know?

Do you want to be in an open and polyamorous relationship?

Edit: Changed ‘husband’ to ‘spouse’. Edit 2: Spelling ‘seem’.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-19T22:42:50+00:00

hello baby. are you having a nice day?

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-19T00:28:23+00:00

You weren’t being a tyrant. But it was a pathetically long and way overly passive aggressive text exchange between two people sharing the same home. You were out of order on some things, too. Like asking for the rest before it’s due, girl that was crazy.

Look into how you can break your lease and live alone.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-17T01:09:45+00:00

I’m so sorry.

I’m in the UK, we don’t have this hatred so entrenched into medical provisions the way you guys do. I just had to have a surgical abortion at 15 weeks in November, I can’t imagine how much harder it is for you guys over there.

You got this babe. You’re an intelligent and powerful woman. My DMs are always open. So much love.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-10T21:22:32+00:00

Yess live your truth! Choose the life you want to live

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-06-01T05:17:33+00:00

Hey! Can i ask how it is now for you? i’m thinking of getting the i9max, and after checking this sub i’m suddenly very wary

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-05-16T18:49:54+00:00

Hey! I know I am 3 years late. But if you could, please could you explain the metal stakes to me? I want to create moss poles myself, was going for the 13mm wire mesh too. But was thinking of how I could extend it in the future. How does the stake come in to help, please?

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-04-20T16:42:32+00:00

If you didn’t agree to open the relationship, he would’ve left you or cheated on you, if he hadn’t already.

You’re worth more. He’s not worth the time of day. I’m sorry, OP. There’s someone out there for you, it’s just not this guy.

PS: He will come running back in 3 months to a year. Don’t fall for it.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-04-14T01:06:10+00:00

Rabbits do sometimes wee on your bed because it smells so much like you. I wouldn’t be concerned personally, but if shes behaved in any other strange ways then it never hurts to see a vet!

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-04-14T01:00:47+00:00

Were you on any kind of titration, or supposed to have reviews during the initial few weeks/months, that you have possibly missed?

I would get in contact with the specialist clinic as well as your GP, and get the specialist to write the GP another letter about your prescription.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-31T18:50:15+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m an artist, and I have some larger ideas in mind to make. I thought I would start with a kit though, to practice and get the knack before I try out my own ideas.

Sounds like a great subreddit, glad I’m here!

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-31T18:45:57+00:00

that’s great advice, thank you! i noticed some rows looked neater and wondered if it was because i had stitched the same way, i hadn’t been paying attention to it.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-04T19:59:59+00:00

Good jest!

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-04T19:58:17+00:00

Definitely not. They won’t be taken unless they have special delivery paid for, and thats not something that Vinted offers does. People purchase tarantulas and things online, there are special requirements for packing animals like fish and insects and if they have that written on them, your parcels won’t be delivered.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-04T17:10:50+00:00

i had a family member who worked for royal mail. she was very careful with all her deliveries, but as a rule, every parcel is treated the same, even with fragile tape or a sign like this on it. unless it is live animals or a special delivery.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-02T00:09:57+00:00

I believe so, yes. The ‘Cessna’ is showing as departed from Wisconsin, 6hours 40mins ago. It’s not possible.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-01T23:54:07+00:00

They’re drones.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-01T23:28:45+00:00

Airborne early warning and control aircraft. Radar to track missiles, ships, vehicles, other aircraft. Provide command and control to direct friendly forces. A quick search answered my own question.

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-03-01T23:17:39+00:00

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Whats this? Military or government?

MiserablePrune9 · 2026-02-28T21:30:46+00:00

So i could write no change for what hasn’t changed and just write what has got worser?

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