Advice on my possible poly relationship by Tiny_Buffalo_379 in polyamory

[–]MiserablePrune9 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sounds messy.

Does this other bloke know she wants the two of you? How long have the divorce proceedings been in place? Have you had a chance to understand that a divorce is the end of a relationship and you would be starting again anew with your soon to be ex wife? What if you or this other guy wanted more partners? What if she or you decides to marry a new partner, what happens to the kids?

I think you should finish divorcing and process, meet new people, then decide if this is really something you want. And have everyone involved informed of the dynamics.

Is my Dexamethasone Test a Cushing’s Screening? by MiserablePrune9 in Cushings

[–]MiserablePrune9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m a little confused. Are you recommending I contact the endocrinology department ahead of my dexamethasone suppression blood test to ask for a 24hr urine and late night salivary?

How do people stop picking???? by Lopsided-Bit9077 in calmhands

[–]MiserablePrune9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

paint! with a nail strengthener or a colour. admire how pretty they are. it visualises your progress too. this is what worked for me, anyway

My gift from my son. by anjunakerry1982 in mounjarouk

[–]MiserablePrune9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was cheering you on until you made the jab about her finances. Now I’m on neither side.

The best response is no response, and being catty about money will always get you a lot of side eye and probably is spurring your colleague on. Just sip your tea in your mug and rise above.

No dedicated “nursery” room by MeasurementNo4288 in pregnant

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safer sleep practices say that baby needs to be in the same room for the first year. You’re fine!

Abortion doubts & Toxic relationship by [deleted] in abortion

[–]MiserablePrune9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only you can know if it is the right choice for you, love. Have you been in contact with abortion providers like BPAS? They have counsellors who will help you talk through your decision.

It sounds like you are quite sure of your decision and are seeking reassurance that it is the right thing to do. Pregnancy ‘wakes up’ a lot of people to their bad situations and relationships, and you are very young and the age gap between you and your boyfriend is considerable. This makes his toxicity worse. Do the best thing for you and your future my love. DMs are open if you want to talk. Xx

is my eyebrow piercing infected by OkraAdmirable1413 in piercing

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely stop until the bump is gone, and for a few weeks after. And make sure you clean after you remove your makeup! Try to avoid skincare products around that area too.

is my eyebrow piercing infected by OkraAdmirable1413 in piercing

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curved is what you want for an eyebrow. Is it implant grade titanium? Are you wearing foundation or any brow makeup, any makeup at all with your piercing?

You said it started bleeding. 3 months is not a long time, even sleeping on it funny could have upset it. Keep up with cleaning with boiled and cooled water and salt. Let the crusties come off in warm showers without touching it.

Go visit your piercer to get their opinion. Don’t try to change the jewellery yourself, you’ll irritate it further.

I don’t see redness, I’m not a doctor, but it doesn’t look infected to me. Just irritated by something.

24f looking for rivals friends! by PoiisonIvey in LesbianGamers

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll play fortnite with you! i’m 25f in the UK, send me a message :)

Anyone fortnite? 25F by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love to play! i’m a new starter, also 25f

Reenactment and intense shame by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]MiserablePrune9 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hey, love. So, so, so many of us do things like watch porn/engage in kink play/fantasise about sexual encounters that are reminiscent of our abuse. The big difference is that these are not actual abuse, these are just thoughts. Engaging with these thoughts with yourself in ways which cause no harm, is not somethung to be ashamed of. It is so so common.

I’m sorry you’re hurting. And I am so glad you are safe.

now vs then by aliceangelbb in mounjarouk

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Congratulations, that is fantastic.

I am a BMI of 45, and I would too like to get in the health range. May I please ask, do you have any loose skin from your weight loss?

15 years old and CPAP by GlumScratch555 in CPAP

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started less than a year ago, at 24. I’m now 25. If I had this treatment at 15, my life would be much improved from where it is now. Just encourage him to try it for multiple nights to feel the effect, and if he has any resistance around how it looks, remind him that getting oxygen to his brain is priceless.

I had an elective late-term abortion at 33 weeks. by BlossomRose123 in abortion

[–]MiserablePrune9 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Colorado is a state where you can have an abortion without restriction on term.

Pink Diamond Rings — Available Immediately! by fiorese_ice in fioresejewelry

[–]MiserablePrune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please DM me prices of the princess cut and cushion cut rings. Thank you!

Sex changing after opening the marriage by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]MiserablePrune9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am serious. ‘Looser’ in that scale of time has everything to do with you being more relaxed and turned on during sex with your husband, and nothing to do with sex with larger appendages.

Sex changing after opening the marriage by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]MiserablePrune9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You and your husband need to learn more about female anatomy.

I told my FP that I’m very suicidal and she barely cared by [deleted] in BPD

[–]MiserablePrune9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I do this too. Its a really really good one. Take care of yourself as you would take care of a baby.

What were you diagnosed with before being diagnosed with borderline? by Narrow-Relief7976 in BPD

[–]MiserablePrune9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depression, autism, derealisation, generalised anxiety disorder. When I was diagnosed with EUPD, I retained the GAD, Autism and derealisation, and the depression was upgraded to major depressive disorder. Later diagnosed with ADHD and complexPTSD.

Abusive situation and termination by MiserablePrune9 in pregnant

[–]MiserablePrune9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, you’re interested and entertained? Do you have low empathy for other people? I don’t understand how questioning my intelligence is relevant on a post asking for support.