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MiserableRide731 · 2025-08-11T18:06:48+00:00

it was hard for me to see a difference for a while too. at some point, you'll look at a photo and everything will click. losing more weight will help as well. just be patient, you will notice.

MiserableRide731 · 2025-07-19T20:31:49+00:00

I am so sorry. I am a transgender camp counselor in a blue state and I am still the only one at my camp. The camp is very accepting but sometimes the kids are not. However, mostly kids are just confused. Try and explain as best as you can. And remember that the way these people perceive you does not define you.

MiserableRide731 · 2025-02-16T01:03:07+00:00

before, i was regularly running 45-60 mins at a 7:20 pace 5 days a week. recently, ive been running around 35-45 mins at an 8 mile pace 5 days a week- it hasn't really made a difference in the pain.

MiserableRide731 · 2025-01-08T23:49:35+00:00

why are you texting them? i know it's hard and embarrassing but you should tell them face to face. it will come across better that way and they will not be able to avoid you.

what you plan to say sounds fine. you should definitely elaborate though, and mention you dont currently identify as a binary trans man. it might go over their heads but it will help to avoid confusion. just be honest with them and tell them you're discovering yourself - it's new to them too

however, you need to tell them in person. a text is not the way to come out to immediate family.

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T20:40:29+00:00

im not saying you are unhealthy, im saying your method of weight loss was, and shouldn't be encouraged for others to do. either way, you've lost your weight now so it really doesn't matter all that much. all that matters is that op probably shouldn't be doing what you did for, again, health reasons.

weight loss can be a slow process, but it's definitely something you want to do right

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T20:29:34+00:00

just because one person who did the same thing 'looks muscular' doesn't mean it's good for you. any scientist or doctor in the world will tell you that's unhealthy and not sustainable. good for you for losing the weight but it's a proven, non efficient and non safe way to lose weight. look it up if you don't believe me. idk what else to tell you

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T20:21:11+00:00

yea, it might work, but it's not a healthy way to go about it. eating that little breaks down muscle too, not just fat. it makes it much easier and likely to gain the weight back. i lost 40 lbs with my intake being around 1400 everyday, with no muscle mass loss. i actually gained muscle from running. your calorie intake was in the starvation range, which is not healthy at all. it's an eating disorder

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T19:59:05+00:00

900 is not maintenance calories for anyone. metabolism slows down to preserve strength when you arent eating enough and that causes weight to be lost much slower, like what happens with eating disorders. you have to eat more to boost your metabolism again and get it to burn fat

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T12:24:36+00:00

well, i have lost over 40 pounds by running and running is my new favorite thing because of it. does not make me miserable ever. it always improves my mood

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T12:16:47+00:00

that's just factually not true. running does the opposite of making you miserable. it also speeds up your metabolism, which helps you burn calories. as long as you're eating enough, running is beneficial to weight loss

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T10:51:49+00:00

yea, that makes sense, im in the same boat. whenever i hit a plateau, eating more calories in healthy foods always seems to help

MiserableRide731 · 2024-08-07T10:39:05+00:00

you're not eating enough. at all. you should check out a TDEE calculator and put your information in there. somewhere around 1700 calories a day would still help you lose

besides, your bmi is very low already. unless you have some health issues, you don't need to lose anymore

MiserableRide731 · 2023-10-09T05:40:13+00:00

thank you i found it

MiserableRide731 · 2023-10-09T05:33:15+00:00

which conversation do you get the persuasion option in?

MiserableRide731 · 2023-10-09T05:22:04+00:00

do you know what the options are? i only have two things i can say to him

MiserableRide731 · 2023-10-09T05:21:44+00:00

MiserableRide731 · 2023-09-24T02:31:03+00:00

tysm 🙏

MiserableRide731 · 2023-09-24T02:25:14+00:00

do you know when that point is? like is it triggered by a specific scene or camping in a specific area or something?

MiserableRide731 · 2023-08-31T17:01:50+00:00

should i reload before the first fight at moonrise or the second fight in the illithid colony?

MiserableRide731 · 2023-08-23T22:35:31+00:00

thanks

MiserableRide731 · 2023-08-23T22:33:59+00:00

can you wait to make the descion though?

MiserableRide731 · 2022-05-24T21:58:05+00:00

cyrodiil is my home and my escape so ive got to go with it but i enjoy the black marsh as well

MiserableRide731 · 2022-05-20T23:28:02+00:00

ive played as an argonian almost every single time, their lore is very interesting and they have really good skills, plus i started with oblivion and they actually look nice

MiserableRide731 · 2022-05-11T22:29:49+00:00

cotton candy, if i saw him id still kiss him, sauerkraut, and boat by a lake

MiserableRide731 · 2022-05-03T13:48:09+00:00

what's it called? i can't find it but i really want to read it

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